Playing piano for guests.

[zheer]

  Do you guys play piano often for guests, am being asked more and more recently to play for guest classical music, tonight i playd chopin ballad in g minor ,nocturnes for the adults and Beethoven Fur elise for the children. Please share your experience and what you play for guests.

[gonzalo]

  Do you guys play piano often for guests, am being asked more and more recently to play for guest classical music, tonight i playd chopin ballad in g minor ,nocturnes for the adults and Beethoven Fur elise for the children. Please share your experience and what you play for guests.

I play for guests:

Schubert impromptu op.142 nº2
2nd mov. of Pathetique sonata.
Nocturne op.9 nº2 , Chopin.
Some preludes from the WTC , like nº9, nº17, etc.
Prelude from Partita nº1, Bach.

I usually play slow pieces, but if I see that the guests are bored, I'll play something flashy and quick.

[thalbergmad]

I never play for guests.

I used to until someone did not like my Henselt Nocturne and asked if i new the theme tune to Eastenders.

Thal

[bench warmer]

Usually, nobody askes me to play until too much wine (or other alcohol) has been consumed for me to play well or them to listen well. Oh well.

[lostinidlewonder]

I constantly get asked to play, even when I am supposed to be relaxing and enjoying myself at a restaraunt. Everytime I pass a piano with friends they say, look Ben a piano!

When I am in a restaraunt situation I will play restaraunt music ehhe. Stuff like music from the 40s-80s (which includes a lot of hollywood movie music), Latin music, Jazz stuff etc. This was recordings of my restarunt style music I posted a little while back.
http://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,19860.msg216683.html#msg216683

When I am at home I will play anything, usually stuff I have been learning which is 99% of the time Classical piano, or requests which is most of the time the general list everyone knows, all those famous classical pieces I don't even need to mention.

Im a little strange though, I don't like people talking while I am playing, so usually I will not play a piece completely because I don't believe people are listening to it closely enough. I can't get that thought process out of my head, even when I am doing concerts I feel the same. But I guess so long one person listens closely I should be happy and play for them.

[debussy symbolism]

Greetings.

One thing is to play for them, the other is to have them listen.

[rc]

I usually try and play a bit for guests, just whatever I've got in my memory.  Either they'll ask, or I'll just hop on when the time is right.

One thing is to play for them, the other is to have them listen.

This is true.  It's great if somebody enjoys the music, but even if nobody is really listening I like to have the performance practice.

It really helps to talk a little about the piece beforehand.  Anything really, what you like about it, what the title means, a little biography-tidbit on the composer...  Even just "I like this piece, it's by Bach, it's a lot of fun" seems to help people focus on the playing.

I'd like to make an opprotunity to get into some details of form and aesthetic to a listener, with some quick examples before performing.  Really help them understand the styles. 

One day, with recordings, I explained a few things to a friend about how the music is organized and he was really able to get into it.  The main thing is to be able to focus their attention on the music, most casual music listeners are used to music as background...

[ramseytheii]

Rosenthal recounted that at a dinner party, Busoni decided to play for the guests.  Without getting up from the keyboard, he played Beethoven op. 101, 106, 109, 110, and 111. 
"It was a heavy dinner," said Rosenthal.

Walter Ramsey

[kriskicksass]

Rosenthal recounted that at a dinner party, Busoni decided to play for the guests.  Without getting up from the keyboard, he played Beethoven op. 101, 106, 109, 110, and 111. 
"It was a heavy dinner," said Rosenthal.

Walter Ramsey

Busoni was famous for ridiculously long recital programs. Besides, I certainly wouldn't have minded if I were there!

[franz_]

I constantly get asked to play, even when I am supposed to be relaxing and enjoying myself at a restaraunt. Everytime I pass a piano with friends they say, look Ben a piano!

When I am in a restaraunt situation I will play restaraunt music ehhe. Stuff like music from the 40s-80s (which includes a lot of hollywood movie music), Latin music, Jazz stuff etc. This was recordings of my restarunt style music I posted a little while back.

Im a little strange though, I don't like people talking while I am playing, so usually I will not play a piece completely because I don't believe people are listening to it closely enough. I can't get that thought process out of my head, even when I am doing concerts I feel the same. But I guess so long one person listens closely I should be happy and play for them.

That's exactly the same to me!!!

[zheer]

I never play for guests.

I used to until someone did not like my Henselt Nocturne and asked if i new the theme tune to Eastenders.

Thal

  LOL i bet there's nothing wrong with Henselt Nocturne,just you guest trying to be funny.

[jalgor]

Scales and arpeggios.

[ce nedra]

No zheer... i dont think thalbergmad's guest was trying to be funny... My mother had friends over the other day, and the one lady asked me (very sincerely) if I could play anything by Barry Manilow. I've had requests for smashing pumpkins, kindergarten songs, metallica (!!??) and... my personal favourite.... VIVALDI. So no, they joke not, they are just truly ignorant.

EVERY TIME someone comes over... I MUST PLAY.... i've started mysteriously dissappearing at those times. I hide. Or play dead. I cant just say "no- dont feel like it" cos then they look all hurt... as if I'm expected to. Or as if I said I was going to in the first place, or whatever.You know, really, if you want to hear me, come to one of my concerts and PAY. I'm starting to get severely fed up with tea time quick little pieces. And being told I play like "an angel" by old ladies who cant even tell the difference between Bach and Stockhausen.

[quantum]

No zheer... i dont think thalbergmad's guest was trying to be funny... My mother had friends over the other day, and the one lady asked me (very sincerely) if I could play anything by Barry Manilow. I've had requests for smashing pumpkins, kindergarten songs, metallica (!!??) and... my personal favourite.... VIVALDI. So no, they joke not, they are just truly ignorant.

EVERY TIME someone comes over... I MUST PLAY.... i've started mysteriously dissappearing at those times. I hide. Or play dead. I cant just say "no- dont feel like it" cos then they look all hurt... as if I'm expected to. Or as if I said I was going to in the first place, or whatever.You know, really, if you want to hear me, come to one of my concerts and PAY. I'm starting to get severely fed up with tea time quick little pieces. And being told I play like "an angel" by old ladies who cant even tell the difference between Bach and Stockhausen.

Have you tried improvising some avant garde?  They'll either love it or be scared to ask you to play next time.

[leucippus]

Scales and arpeggios.

Me too.

I'm new to the piano but I've played other instruments most of my life.  Like others, I really get upset when people ask you to play and then sit around and BS to each other completely ignoring you.  Why did they even ask in the first place?

So I got to the point where when people ask me to play I play the most unintersting exercises I can think of.  Usually they don't even notice, and just say, "That was nice".

I played Hanon exercise #21 for some relatives the other day.  Surprisingly they actually listened to the whole boring piece and afterward they clapped and said it was great!

[ramseytheii]

I played Hanon exercise #21 for some relatives the other day.  Surprisingly they actually listened to the whole boring piece and afterward they clapped and said it was great!

How about a "Hanon Fantasia" or "Hanon pastiche"?  It could be an ostinato like in Ligeti's Fanfares with all sorts of melodic fragments over it, and the ostinato is always switching octaves and changing its rhytmic inflection... omg where is staff paper when you really need it!

Walter Ramsey

[cfortunato]

My mother had friends over the other day, and the one lady asked me (very sincerely) if I could play anything by Barry Manilow. I've had requests for smashing pumpkins, kindergarten songs, metallica (!!??) and... my personal favourite.... VIVALDI. So no, they joke not, they are just truly ignorant.

I LIKE that.  You know what I like about playing Twisted Sister or Pink Floyd on the piano?  The invariable comment: "I didn't know you could do that on a piano."  The reply?  "You can do ANYTHING on a piano."

[ted]

If I know the guest is a real music lover then I shall try to the best of my ability to please. If the guest asks me to play and then starts a conversation with somebody or leaves the room, I tend to stop playing; what's the point ? Or if, after I have made an effort to please, the guest remarks how much better somebody else plays or how I ought to play in the dark with coloured lights on my fingers, my enthusiasm for playing for them is inclined to wane.

[debussy symbolism]

, the guest remarks how much better somebody else plays or how

That's terrible. How mordant and arrogant of them.

[ted]

Yes, it is pretty rude, but it has happened to me quite often. I don't know why people do it. If the intention is to hurt they are wasting their time because I know in general my playing is pretty rough, comparatively speaking. I don't want praise, I just enjoy myself. If they don't enjoy it then that's fine, I shan't bother playing. In short I think it is psychological on their part rather than musical.

[leucippus]

Yes, it is pretty rude, but it has happened to me quite often. I don't know why people do it. If the intention is to hurt they are wasting their time because I know in general my playing is pretty rough, comparatively speaking. I don't want praise, I just enjoy myself. If they don't enjoy it then that's fine, I shan't bother playing. In short I think it is psychological on their part rather than musical.

I agree that's rude and people do it all the time with everything.  People ask to see my garden and when I show it to them they start bragging about someone else's garden that I should see.  Or I'll be working on a quilt and they ask to see it and then tell me about someone they know that makes beautiful quilts and I should to see them to get some tips and advice.

I'm not interested in comparing my accomplishments with other people.  I just do what I do and I'm sure there are people who do better and there are people who do worse.  Moreover, why should I compare my little private homely garden with someone else who basically does gardening for a living and has a fruit and vegetable stand?  Or compare my little homely quilt with someone who is obsessed with making quilts and enters them into contests constantly.

Same goes with my piano and violin playing.  I do my thing for my own enjoyment.  I'm not interested in being compared with paid performers who do this for a living for crying out loud.  They better be good at it, it's their CAREER!

[debussy symbolism]

I could understand someone sharing their ideas about someone else who does something, but to belittle you for saying that they are better is just very mean.

[quasimodo]

As already mentionned, playing for people who have no clue about classical music is frustrating. On the other hand, if the people are not ignoramuses, it might be intimidating. Anyway playing in front of people is the only way to prepare for future performance. Difficult choice.
No way I would learn Fur Elise to please the mainstream casual clueless guest  .

[timothy42b]

I don't want praise, I just enjoy myself. If they don't enjoy it then that's fine, I shan't bother playing. In short I think it is psychological on their part rather than musical.

I don't really trust praise, because it may not be genuine, or it may not come from someone with the skills to judge.  Same with criticism.

What I trust is:  do they hire me again? 

That is the only compliment that means anything. 

[rc]

I must not have an ego.  It doesn't bother me at all to be compared to someone else, just go with it.  "Really? I should hear them play sometime, do you have a recording I could hear?" or "Yeah I've heard of Ashkenazy from somewhere, he really IS amazing, love the clarity".

They don't mean offense, it's just what they have to relate to your playing.

No way I would learn Fur Elise to please the mainstream casual clueless guest  .

I would.  It's a beautiful piece, and easy for people to enjoy...  A good way to introduce someone to something different.  "so you like Beethoven?" (nobody ever says they don't like Beethoven)  "...well here's something else by Beethoven"  (Sonata movement) or "...here's something by a teacher of Beethoven's"  (Haydn Sonata) or "They say 10,000 people attended Beethoven's funeral.  Brahms was born 6 years after LVB's death, he really idolized Beethoven."

It's a good way to introduce somebody to something new - relate it to something familiar.  Nothing is more familiar than Fur Elise

[marik]

I never play for guests. I explain the piano playining for me is my work and I don't really feel like working, while everybody else is partying.   

[quasimodo]

I would.  It's a beautiful piece, and easy for people to enjoy...  A good way to introduce someone to something different.  "so you like Beethoven?" (nobody ever says they don't like Beethoven)  "...well here's something else by Beethoven"  (Sonata movement) or "...here's something by a teacher of Beethoven's"  (Haydn Sonata) or "They say 10,000 people attended Beethoven's funeral.  Brahms was born 6 years after LVB's death, he really idolized Beethoven."

It's a good way to introduce somebody to something new - relate it to something familiar.  Nothing is more familiar than Fur Elise

Well the problem is that I basically dislike 90% of LVB's piano music (I'm going to be lapidated, here  ). It has nothing to do with the fact that Fur Elise is over-massacred by almost all wannabe penizts of the planet. I don't mind learning overplayed repertoire as a principle. But I mind learning something I dislike.

[drjames]

We all run into this problem from time to time in various ways.  If you're a piano player, you get asked to play, if you're a doctor you get asked medical questions. Yes, by complete strangers.  You can always firmly, but politely say no.  Or you can do as little as possible such as a brief generic answer or a brief generic piano piece such as Fur Elise or a Chopin prelude.  Maybe not even the whole thing because as many of you suggest the people aren't really interested in hearing the music, they just want to see if you can really play or not. The sense that I get though is that many of you feel pressured to play for people when you don't want to.  Don't be afraid to say "No, not right now." You will probably feel better about yourself afterwards.  James

[melengi]

Have you tried improvising some avant garde?  They'll either love it or be scared to ask you to play next time.

WORD

i hate being asked, cos all they ever want to hear is a chopin nocturne, usually the hideously overplayed one in e flat

which makes it fun to whip out the schnittke/kurtag/ligeti

[debussy symbolism]

I am always pushed by my parents to perform for the guests on an occasion. What do they think I am? And rushing me isn't going to get me to play for them. My mother also tried to persuade me to let her record myself play my material to send it to my grandparents who live far away How can I record something that isn't at all ready?

[ce nedra]

DS- how can they expect you to play for guests properly if they never let you practise???

[Mozartian]

Mazurkas. I keep at least 2 or 3 in memory, as usually whenever I'm with friends/family around a piano, I get asked to play.

The softer Scriabin preludes are really nice to play for adults. And kids LOVE Schumann, haha.

[debussy symbolism]

DS- how can they expect you to play for guests properly if they never let you practise???

No no that was on one day only, Sunday. That one time they just were not in mood and I can undestand that. Of course they let me practice, would be rediculous if they didn't.

[starpianist]

I never play piano for guests. I don't think my playing is bad at all, though. 

[theswede]

I once got the comment: Rubinstein plays it better ( he was still alive at that time-but old )

I replied- But he has had a much longer time to practice since he is so old....