I agree with what your saying. I think in the end you just need to be patient and have faith that in the end this student will be able to do just as well as other, even if it takes more time for him. I know I had trouble riding a bike, it took me a week to learn, but now i can ride the bike just like anyone else.
I am not sure about that.. if i was a teacher i will take responsibility for their students failure first before I place blame on their natural ability. I remember reading about how Einstein failed math in school, and i am guessing that people who taught him thought maybe he was just not teachable. And i've also seen people who made HUGE progress studying with the right teachers.. I know a lot of students who were ok at best when they started, but by the time they were graduating they were going to top graduate schools with scholarships. Nobody expected them to play at the level they do now.I know so many things in life that people thought i would just never be able to do.. i had a lot trouble with riding a bike, or driving a car, but i did manage to do it, it took me a while to figure out what it feels to do it right but i did find it.. i know people who are missing finger/s and they are able to play pieces like fantasie impromptu.so i am reluctant to blame my inability to physical limitations because I can always use that as a clutch/excuse. .and i know people in worse situation who is able to achieve what i couldn't..
However, I am reminded of the fact that although I can hold a pen and write, my way (or technique) of holding it has always been wrong. Also I think very differently than everyone else. Some things cannot be fixed. There are just strengths and weaknesses.
Ameliaw.That is very nice to know.. I was in a same situation but i was not blessed with a good teacher... instead i had teachers who gave me too much finger exercise and encouraged me to play with tension.. I started having problem with my hand 4 month into the program and I've been struggling with tendonitis ever sinceLately i am wondering whether the same teacher would say the same thing about my technique back then if i was 10 years younger.. I mean if I was 8 and I was playing Bach invention in my second year, that doesn't seem so bad at all. maybe the idea of where your technique is "supposed to be" that is misleading... maybe its a bias. Technique is something that just takes time to build, and if you start late, its normal to have a developed technique later in your life, it may be simple as that. Maybe it would be a lot easier if teachers just drop this idea that a student has to be develop by a certain age in order to make it, and so on, and just be there to assist the students in their path, at whatever level they are... because if they have potential, it will develop and blossom over time.. and I dont think finger exercise on steriods is the answer.
I think if a child has coordination problems with the piano, you should remove the piano from the problem. Get him to play the piece on a table, and then all he will focus on is coordination. He will get used to the feeling of the hands and fingers doing small movements together. You must do this with the student though, and make it sound like a game. Usually they will just do it. Then tell them to do it on the piano, but again make it just sound like a game, and then hopefully it should have solved the problem. Demonstrate to the child a lot as well, you will be amazed how much they will learn from watching and listening. If they are very talented they will probably play things back to you from ear. If so, you could play a one line melody to the child, and make him repeat it back to you. Do this a few times, then add one LH note, and tell him to repeat the passage, and I bet you will find he will play it, and then just get more and more complicated and see how far you can go with it.