I just read a lot of your posts. I enjoy the chance to "share" with other classical pianists here. After reading your posts, another thing that used to irritate me a lot is the comment, "I play by ear." or "He plays by ear. He's SO TALENTED." This remark is made with the clear connotation that to "play by ear" is far superior to playing with music. There are people who believe that playing by ear is automatically superior to playing by reading music. Then I hear these people playing by ear (I have to admit I do know what fellow who played very well by ear), but most of them are off key, play cords that don't harmonize with the melody, play very monotonous left-hand accompaniment to simple melodies etc. In short, music that is not pleasant to the trained ear. I think to myself, I can play "by ear" too, but I am never satisfied with what I play that way and if there is music for the piece, I would rather read and play with the sheet music.
Give these poor people a break. Of course they're not gonna know, they are non-musicians. After all, not everyone can have your astounding knowledge of high culture. And God forbid anyone has to ever play Bartok on a 66 key keyboard. What could they possibly have been thinking when they offered to do you what they thought was a favor, pianote? I think there's a thread about musical snobs somewhere...
The problem is, results don't seem to count, either. No matter what I play, no matter how quiet, or lovely, or perfect, it's an obvious "irritant" to the household. Once I played the moonlight sonata - the whole darned thing, memorized and all - for my mom because she wanted me to play something for her. When I was done she said "hm. that was nice, but play the Entertainer. I like that piece!"i refused.
- Classical music is sh*t- Piano is one of the easiest instruments to play (which actually came from a musician)- Piano is one of the hardest instruments to play (came from another musician)- Amazing that people were able to create such music 300 years ago- Complaining about how bad classical music is, and later on telling me about this great visit to Andre Rieu
It is more funny to me. I did not know that Beethoven wrote gospel music. Best regards, Dr
Yesterday he made me SO MAD that I just went home. This made me even more mad than the guy who said that Mozart was overrated.
As I have said before, I pay a lot of attention to remarks about my music by non-musicians. Very little of it irritates me and it frequently contains unorthodox insight and observations which a musician would not air for fear of being thought unprofessional.
I hate to be serious in a nonserious thread but..........I will anyway.He didn't make you mad.You made yourself mad.He was just nearby when you did it.
I've heard that for school things. Classroom management, etc. I don't think people choose their reactions. That's why it's a reaction. They have a lot of control over their actions and can control their feelings too. But there's still a uncontrolled reaction to other people.Not that that changes what you tell a student. Everything's "their choice..." and they "choose" their path and live with the results.