It is harder to tell things online, but a lot of times to me it comes across as being a little nasty, or at least degrading.
I understand your point...I too have
sometimes (not always) been degrading towards Marion (lucylucy), however...to solve that problem, I think BOTH sides of the cause should try and cease this futile arguments.
I accept some of the blame, as others would also. But I think half of the blame also rests with lucy, whether or not she agrees...is up to her. Just like the decision to try and get along with us, whilst we do the same towards her, is also hers to make.
G.W.K