Yes, ongaku and I started a long off topic conversation in the thread Learning Chinese : ) that became off topic so we moved it here.
I'm not sure about ongaku_oniko, but most of my family is still in China. My parents came here on scholarship, and then decided to stay.
Thanks for your advice. I'm not sure if they don't say much because they are not open to it, or if it just never crossed their mind for them to tell me all the details. Whenever I ask them, they are vague. Maybe they just don't know what to say. I get the feeling they have very mixed feelings about it all . Almost like how I don't know whether Stephen Harper is really good or not
I don't have many opportunities to talk to my family as they are all in China. Most of what I know about world war II, and the Cultural revolution, is from reading books, and other people's experiences. But I don't know much about my own family. I wish they would tell me more. Maybe over the summer, my parents and I could spend more time talking about it.
Because there's so much you can learn from history, it's pretty valuable in my opinion.
One often forgotten part of history is the Armenian genocide... and one thing Hilter said while making his own genocide plans was something along the lines of "who today still thinks about the Armenian genocide?" He felt he could get away with killing all these people (6 million Jews and everyone else!), because they would be forgotten anyway.
I don't know many details about my family in WWII, but I think my grandparents do have bad memories, they don't say specific things but they always mention how brutal it was. All I know (from my mom) is that my grandpa worked at a bookstore back then as a kid. (@ongaku, he was even younger than me! (: ) One day, he was delivering a book, and when he came back to the store, it was gone- bombed by the Japanese, and everything was in flames. If he wasn't making the delivery... he would have still been in that bookstore....
As for forgiveness, well, maybe it's easy for me to forgive, because I never experienced it. I've read books, watched movies, done research, but I wasn't actually there. I can understand if people are angry, even when I read and watch I get extremely upset, but idealistic as it sounds, I seriously don't think hatred can be countered by more hatred. And I really hope I can still say that if I ever go through something so terrible.

PS: when I went to China, some of my relatives' neighbours kids taught me a game. I forgot how it was played, but basically, if you lose, you are called Jiang jieshi... Now that is more subliminal messaging... !
