Well, how do you know someone's potential has been blocked?
I don't believe in all that, I believe in guts and hard work.
Dattebayo.
@Dima,You mentioned "natural abilities". I think this would be an interesting topic to write about, and how it relates to piano studies or academia. Then, you could tie back the birth challenge concept and how many people it affects today....
I know the idea itself is not about a lie, but the idea itself is only good enough if you already have the right mindset and are already in the position where you want to be.
It doesn't help much to get where you want to be if other conditions are not right. That is the part they prefer not to talk about.
Most of us don't have to perform at the maximum levels of human accomplishment either. If they had to, they would meet themselves in the process so to speak.
I'm sorry you are side stepping your previous point that you believed people's childhoods command their potential and "many many" people suffer this.
Lol.
A good psycho-analyst/therapist will tell you that this is only partly true. Many, many people simply cannot make that choice and stay that same child within.
So the pressures in childhood can become zero if the teen/adult makes that choice.
"many many" stay that same child within.
I find the IF part in your sentence very convincing; crucial even. Does it happen often enough, however? In my posts, I indicated some reasons why this may not be the case in too many people.
I have no reason to doubt that, since p2u_ has many experts in many fields as his friends; he must know what he is talking about. Besides, he is from the West, and must be quite able to judge whether those "equal opportunities" you brag about in your part of the world are a reality.
Please, watch DJ Sobanjo's clip I posted. There is this woman with constant career trouble, wherever she works, and no matter how hard she works. His expert "How-to" advice doesn't seem to work. He then advises her to "work on the personal relationship with her manager". What does that imply? How far should she go if she doesn't want to get fired? Show how good she's in bed maybe? The very fact that "equality" and "equal opportunities" are even defined in laws all over the world is already proof that they don't exist.
I learn much more than just a single online video clips thanks.
Good luck to you, then, if you have it all figured out.
I find the IF part in your sentence very convincing; crucial even.
III THE EDUCATION: What advice would you give to Piano students?Instead of giving advice to students, I would give it to the teachers, to those who teach young children. My advice is that instead of tormenting them with exercises, they should instil in them the love for Music in order for them to transform music into the most important something for their lives.Only by instilling in them the love for music can something be achieved: the innate qualities are important, of course, but instilling in them the feeling of not being able to live without it is fundamental.
This is not my analysis. It is very much based on scientific evidence and clinical experience.A Google search for "Birth trauma - a baby's view" will help you on your way to a better understanding.
If you live in the western world then you have all the opportunity you need.
This may be the most uneducated statement in this thread so far Of course it is possible that 100+ years of serious research in social sciences, biology, psychology and many other fields is all just worth nothing...because we are all born equally equippped and we all have equal opportunities if we just live in the same country...
You are interpreting what I meant by "opportunity" in a strange way and argue with yourself.Generally everyone living in the Western World has the freedom to pursue whatever dreams and goals they want. The majority of us do not live simply to nourish themselves and stay alive like in many third world countries. This gives us the time and resource to pursue our aspirations rather than simply survive.
Why some people succeed and others don't isn't because of "talent". It's primarily opportunity. Even in the field of economics, you'll read the same thing, that successful business people often succeed not by "hard work" but by opportunity. Privilege also plays a large role.
All I get of any specifics is a study by Graham Kennedy, accredited (apparently his only qualification) by the Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy Association. You say alternative therapy medicine, I say quackery.I'm afraid you're going to have to do better than that to convince me.
Now if you are content with supporting your opinions without reliable evidence, that's your prerogative to remain ignorant. But if you want to further your knowledge and understanding, a trip to the library or an academic database search would remedy any ignorance on your part. Remember the Dunning-Kreuger effect: the stupid are too stupid to know that they're stupid.
Here is to help your search, not to convince.
My quibbles with your argument are on two matters only:1) That modern birth methods are more painful/stressful to the baby than historical/natural methods.2) That the pain felt is "remembered" in some way.
This may be the most uneducated statement in this thread so far
I don't know where you live, but almost seems like there's much that you don't know about the Western world...or maybe we just have to accept that we cannot agree because this is also a major ideological issue...To accept that your statement is not true would lead to the conclusion that our social and political systems are not as great as many like to think.
Perhaps he should have said Europe instead.
Meh I don't really care enough to ask you to elaborate. It is logical that we have much more opportunity in the Western world than the third world in terms of goal setting, aspirations etc.
Yes, much more is logical. I only reacted to your original statement "...all the opportunity you need".
We do have all the opportunity we need to succeed.
A Good researcher/scientists seeks out knowledge by finding evidence of a phenomenon. The Bad researcher/scientist already has an opinion and seeks "evidence" to support that opinion.
It will exist until you prove CONCLUSIVELY that it doesn't. I'll tell you in advance: don't bother, because you can't. If you even try, you yourself will be the bad researcher you condemn, because it is your opinion that it doesn't exist, and you seek to prove that.
Even if we assume that no real scientific evidence is available yet (researchers always assume a lot about their findings and the use of medical terms doesn't make understanding any easier), and even if we know that some birth educators have something of an advocating tone, our problem is that we can't really interrogate babies about it. And even if we could, the other problem is that there is not yet picture memory available in babies, so they have nothing to relate their memories to. Should we therefore take the easy road and simply deny that it exists, the same way that "talent" does not exist? If it is true, then it is one of the best explanations I have seen of why contemporary children are who they are, act the way they do, fail when you would expect them to succeed.
By your definition of talent, men are clearly more talented than women since men achieve far more than women do. I doubt you would accept this.
On the above argument, surely your not saying that because we can't prove it to be true, we shouldn't assume it's false and since we can't assume it's false we should take it to be true? It's a common fallacious logic, but I had thought better of you than that.
Since we have no reliable feedback available from the victims (the babies), I am appealing to logic to prove a case. If you and I are able to experience "pain" and remember it, even subconsciously, give me one good reason why babies should not be capable of it. Is my logic fallacious?
As I said, I don't quibble with the "experience" side of things, just the memory. Consider - you remember quite a bit of your childhood, but as you go back to the very early stages, that simply fades out. It is not a matter of fading over time, you had no better memory of it ten years ago. It is that the brain is not equipped with the structures to record experience at that stage. That conceptual (and physical) framework develops as a result of experience - language, categories etc. At birth, that is, at the very best, quite rudimentary, meaning that "memory" is not yet possible in any meaningful sense.
I tried to prove with my "cerebral contusion" post that the results of trauma may exist, even if the adult victim misses the association of where it came from. Not knowing about what happened does not make the case less severe, and the results in this case will be both physical and psychological pain if you can't remember who you were married to. Can you say to such a person: "Don't be a pussy; get up"? Does that mean that if we don't know what happened, effectively nothing happened."?Also, the result of pain may not only be psycholocial; it can be damage done to the cortex and to the nervous system. A baby is under heavy compression when it goes through the channel into this world. If a certain nerve is under pressure for more than a certain amount of time, I find it very conceivable that that person will never be able to fulfil the motoric requirements in music by Beethoven, Liszt, etc. The person will not have the "talent" to do it.
Psychological trauma requires memory. It may be a suppressed memory, but it is a memory nonetheless. It is not that babies do not remember the details or cause of some distress, they do not remember the distress at all. It is simply not recorded, and has, therefore, no lasting consequence.
Physical damage during birth is rare, but is a possibility.
I think that here, science is mistaken. My intuition tells me that the cortex and the nervous system do remember without the need for association.
Your intuition on this point is, then, different to mine. And science agrees with mine. You are entitled to your view, of course, but our discussion must end at this point. There is little to be gained if we cannot agree the basis for determining the facts upon which it is to be based.
Science is orthodox, rigid.
Sir Karl Popper might agree a little, but you should read Thomas Kuhn's "The Structure of Scientific Revolutions" on the subject. It may change your view on that.
Could we not just agree that it's not an enjoyable experience to be born and be happy we only need to do it once?
Hardly. Science by its very nature CANNOT prove that something does not exist because it works on induction. That's its curse. It can only comment on what IS, on what it finds through observation until its theories, generalized conclusions and assumptions about what was supposedly found are disproven by some other scientist(s). Science should never prove what ISN'T, or comment on what cannot be found. Neither can it make comments on what should or shouldn't be. In the case of talent, it has to admit that it just doesn't know whether it exists or not because it's outside the dimensions it can work with.P.S.: This means that anyone who claims that "science has proven X NOT to exist" is lying to you, manipulating the discussion, working with false logic, which should be of more than average interest to a laywer.
One word response: Phlogiston.
Could you give me a hint as to what you mean with this response in this context? I already acknowledged that scientists can attack each other on theories, generalized conclusions and assumptions about what they *think* they have found. Phlogiston has never been part of either the physical world or of general human experience. It was ASSUMED to exist (by a couple of scientists only!) in order to make an obsolete scientific theory work. Assumptions themselves CAN be proven not to be true, but you don't have to be a scientist to do so. That's why we need to be on the outlook constantly for false assumptions in theories that say they are based on scientific "evidence".
Dang, this has gone even more overboard than my Valentina Lisitsa thread.
What had you expected when false logic is used to prove that something that is part of general human experience does purportedly NOT exist?1) Talent doesn't exist because science hasn't proven it yet to exist.Comment: science has very limited knowledge about how our brain works. This was to be expected.2) Talent does not exist BECAUSE opportunity, environment, hard work and formal skills exist.Comment: No comment.