Sounds like you're massively overthinking this.
Scrutinising every little detail like this you'll end up going insane.

I don't know your skill level, but I'd like to stress a couple points (this is mostly down to opinion here)
1 - Almost nobody plays the piano the same, some play with flat fingers, curved fingers, some of us have long fingers small palms, some of us have short fingers big palms, some can reach an octave, some can reach a 12th, some of us curl the little finger when playing other fingers e.t.c. and this can all be evidenced by professional and advanced pianists
2 - Being a professional or even an accomplished pianist is not about being the best pianist. it's not about being able to play every piece of music, about being note perfect, about making difficult pieces look effortless. There are plenty of professional pianists that avoid different pieces, or have particular trouble with certain pieces that others make look easy.
3 - Don't scrutinise the specific ways that you play until something doesn't work.
Let me give you an example, skip to 6 minutes 10 seconds
Check the way this blind autistic pianist plays his scales. (he proceeds to play flight of the bumble bee)
Note he cannot see how his hands looks, he cannot see a finger looking ever so slightly higher than another e.t.c. he simply plays.
As someone that cannot even see music, I can presume he hasn't gone through Liszt or Schmidt exercises. (Aloys Schmidt btw)
I think if you have 8-10 hours a day to practice the piano, consider strict exercises as part of your daily practice.
However if like the average person you have 2-4 hours, i'd honestly focus on the piece of music you are trying to play, and consider breaking that up into little exercises of your own, based on the general principles of practice such as; slow practice, rhythm practice, repetition practice, dynamic practice.
Thinking about the sound you are trying to achieve will more naturally create the response from your fingers that you desire, rather than trying to look and feel something that my never lead to the results you're trying for.