i never hated mozart, but, when i was young, thought he was too predictable in his harmonies and that it was "easy." now, just as i enjoyed reading theodophilus's funny fact-file on bach, i see that mozart wasn't just this happy guy going around writing tuneful things either, but a poet in motion. he WAS spoiled as a child and used to being in the center of things. but, he never stopped learning. he went from being a genius at composition, to learning languages, travelling, doing. he didn't look at just one way of doing something, but a variety of ways.
speaking of interesting facts, too, we tend to thing of him as quite clean mouthed, but apparrently that had to do with some lady who edited his letters for publishing. later, in the original form, he seemed to have (what my teacher calls) "potty mouth." back then, as my teacher explained, their living spaces were crowded and everyone took bodily functions as a sort of natural phenomenon and talked about them openly. even mozart's mother spoke to her children in a dialogue we would consider quite crude. leopold seems to be the one that had a bit more gentlemanly respect and attention to what he said to others.
maybe, if mozart had not had such a priviledged childhood, he wouldn't have gotten "vain." He would have accepted his positions and situations better. BUT, would he have had the same talent without having travelled and done and seen so many things? it certainly is more encouraging for us, as fellow human beings, to recognize frailties in everyone (even genii). people do remember how you treat them, tho, and i think that the motto "the character of a man is not determined by how he treats his peers but by how he treats those beneath him."