I also teach. So being aware of how things affect others is par for the course. You don't know me or how I work to know whether I am "self-limiting" - I assure you that I'm not. I would not make any such statement about you, because I know nothing about your progress, achievements, or anything else.
I don't know anything about this site, but they reference Carol Dweck who does impress me.https://secondwindmovement.com/develop-growth-mindset/
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If I offended u I am sorry. There were some comments at other users that made me feel unsettled when I read it and I had to observe from our engagement. My only wish is to eliminate the any negative feelings to take the conversation into neutral zone. I’ll be mindful how I engage in the future.
Probably captures how I feel. Growth mindset is changing one’s view, how we re-wrap the view and understanding in a way to allow ourselves to progress. ......I think when they use the term neuroplasticity they are talking about about how brain holds its shape. But it can also refer to the solid brain structure that prevents adaptation. How flexible the brain is can be affected by how much we “stretch” or exercise different types of learning.
Any of us here who are older and learning new skills in music - and music might be a new skill - are probably latched into this.
In my opinion, it is a mistake not to recognize that the aging process makes a number of things harder, sometimes much harder.
In my opinion it is a mistake and also harmful to state that any particular things become harder across the board for all people within a given age bracket. We are individuals, each of us different.
"neuroplasticity" argues against that - it says what I tried to say. When something is "plastic" it means it can change its shape.
That is my current read of the neuroplasticity literature. And it seems to say that learning rate declines significantly with age.
Just throwing it out there --Picasso said : "It took me four years to paint like Raphael, but a lifetime to paint like a child."
Tbh, neuroplasticity doesn't seem to say what you want to say.
Your argument is more along the lines: "If you can attain child-like ways of learning, or if you can retain certain abilities when older, your neuroplasticity, at least when it comes to certain domains, does NOT decline with age." I don't think this is entirely unsubstantiated, but it is not what the current consensus on neuroplasticity is by any stretch.
It is harder for a healthy individual to learn gymnastics if they are starting to learn at age 90 compared to a healthy individual starting at age 5. Is it harmful to tell the 90 year old this fact? I understand this is an extreme example.
That was my point in the beginning
He said no, for two reasons. 1), I was too big for a spotter. It's really easy for an adult to guide a 5 year old through a motion insuring they don't land on their head, and are making the correct rotations. Not so easy when you weight 150 and up.2), and maybe more important. An adult's brain has a lifetime of accumulated fear. It's not going to be so easy for you to let go enough to trust some motions.
No, that is not my argument. "child-like" sounds rather romanticized and can be misunderstood.
It also takes time for neural pathways to form, through repeating actions while being present to what you are doing - to the physical realities around you. The "adult way" is often to jump straight to ideas, concepts, intellectual things, and what I described gets circumvented... If the learning style changes, the results will change.
I was against this "hard wax" idea. It was clumsy terminology, so when "neuroplasticity" came along I adopted it. It seemed to reflect my prior ideas - i..e. that the mind has not "hardened into a final form" but is malleable - and that was close enough for me.
It began for me with language learning, where supposedly we'll speak with an accent if learning a language later. I think I'm on my 7th language - lost count. Our linguistics prof talked of the "crible phonologique" - the phonological filter. Here we don't hear a foreign sound: we translate it into what we know by passing it through the "filter" of our mother tongue. That's why a German might say "Venn ve valk" instead of "When we walk." even though "w" does not sound at all like "v" - but the written letter W is pronounced V. Or the American "R" when trying to speak French. To get the foreign sound, we have to "listen without a filter" the way a baby does, and also experiment with our bodies to physically produce that sound.
In short, it came down to a different interaction with the matter at a very fundamental level. That changed many things. If we do things differently - fundamentally - we get different results. Conversely, the results that are found may be due to how things are done.
I don't know how to write this in less words.
When I was in grad school my wife babysat for the gymnastics coach at a Big Ten university. So I asked him if I could learn any at my age. (probably late 20s at the time) He said no, for two reasons. 1), I was too big for a spotter. It's really easy for an adult to guide a 5 year old through a motion insuring they don't land on their head, and are making the correct rotations. Not so easy when you weight 150 and up.2), and maybe more important. An adult's brain has a lifetime of accumulated fear. It's not going to be so easy for you to let go enough to trust some motions. Not all that relevant to piano, I suppose, but I thought it was interesting. He'd obviously been asked before and given it some thought.There is a contrary example, sort of, described in a book called Gnar Country by Steven Kotler. He tries to learn terrain park skiing when a bit older (but with a lifetime of athletic activity.) He succeeds, but his medical bills............... It's worth reading, though. I ended up asking one of the gymnasts if I could at least learn to kip up from a lying position. We worked on it a bit, and she ended up saying my thoracic spine flexibility was too limited.