A Question About LOVE...

[minimozart007]

"young girlies" referring to you.
Getting old referring to your piano teacher.
Understand?

Tall women.....

Sharapova.....mmmmmmmmm

She's stupid....she makes stupid noises.....and she doesn't deserve to be as rich as she is.....but HEY SHE's GOT SEXY LONG LEGS so she is a godess.

So yeh tall women are hot generally.
Plus its easier to dance and kiss and talk with them. and they dont find sex painful

and you would know?

[janice]

Must admit, I think like this nowadays.

I do too!  I've practically given up on ever finding anybody.  And the question above this--Is it harder to make someone love you or to love someone else?"  I don't believe in "making" someone love you.  I think that's wrong.  I'm sure that that is not what you meant, though.  See, I have had a couple of guys who were totally in love with me, and it was so annoying because they "tried too hard", you know? One of the reasons why I have practically given up (but not totally--I could never do that!  I believe in LOVE!!  And love is a beautiful thing!) is because I have high standards, and plus, I go for much older men (10-15 year older) and it seems that all the singles groups, dating services, put you in groups of people your age.  Also,  I can relate to older people because I'm very deep.

[pianonut]

dear janice,

don't give up.  it's funny, but i sort of did because all the guys that liked me, i wasn't too fond of - and a particular guy i thought i liked just treated me like his sister.  so then, when i gave up, i prayed to God for just a good friend.  that's when my hubby wrote me a letter (i had previously told him i had a serious boyfriend).  i was shocked he wrote me anyway.  so, i wrote him back.  and it kept going back and forth and back and forth.  finally, for my senior recital he sent me flowers.  i thought, well, this is nice.  but, really didn't think anything more. then later that day - he called me.  he said i'll get you ticket to come visit if you want - and you can stay at a friend of mine's.  so, kind of wondering at the speed of it all, i hesitantly said ok.  God works in mysterious ways because i ended up liking him so much we got married in 3 weeks.  it was mutual like, friendship, and then love.  i think it's better than 'love' at first sight.  people can look good, but you don't know them.  it's nice if you hit the jackpot though.

[janice]

Must admit, I think like this nowadays.

I have to admit that I too, have practically given up.  But there is a part of me that just won't let the dream die.  I'm not "worried" or "concerned" even that I will find someone who loves me (I'm pretty darn loveable--hahaha), rather I wonder if I will find someone who I love.  I have fallen VERY VERY hard for some men.  But I have learned from my mistakes, and I take a step back and use my rational mind, sometimes I'm too logical about it and treat it as if it were a "project".  Rather, I want love to develop over time.  But then again, if I found someone I KNOW that I could spend the rest of my life with, I could seriously say "let's get married next week".  I want to find a soulmate, but I also want someone who will give me space and leave me alone when I want to be left alone!!! (Does that sound mean?)
I gotta get going, but thalbergmad, keep that hope alive, even if it is just a small spark!  It could happen, you never know.