If she can be shown the value of reading, she might be willing to make that her primary goal for the next 4-6 months--while still doing her own thing with the ear stuff.If she doesn't see the value of reading, it's an uphill battle and you have to decide if it's worth your time and hers.
Up to now you have dealt with pitch by itself. Now deal with rhythm by itself. At this stage you do not even need a piano – it can all be done tapping on a table top or clapping. The two important concepts to be understood here are the relative values of the notes, and the concept of pulse (as opposed to rhythm – most beginners confuse both and clap rhythm rather than pulse).
I guess what is being said here is that clapping pulse is better than clapping rhythm.Why? And how is this done exactly? By imitation? ( I clap, then the student claps?) Is clapping rhythm even needed then?
And what is meant by "relative note values"?
By the way how does one explain this in a most simple way?