Thanks for your posts -
In case anyone else is interested in learning this - I have found a few things that have actually helped me do it.
1. I bought a metronome that has a bell on each measure in either 44, 34, or6-8 meter.
That's helped.
2. I have been looking at Christmas carols, songs I have sang all my life and noticing and also guessing first sometimes how music is written.
3. I also put it in my music program but had to keep changing the rythm until it actually sounded like it. That was a great help too!
4. Noticing where the music has the highest stress (words stressed, I mean) helped me to know that a new measure had started.
5. Lastly, I committed to a couple of students to put their songs into sheet music. This is how I produce - under a lot of pressure, and it's been working.
I'm so excited, that I had to tell someone.
6. Tapping to the music that I have in my head while drinking coffee was one of my first helps in getting music down on paper better.