i think the kitten is good citizen. what makes you think that the kitten doesn't do anything worthy. there are a lot of kittens working for daycares. they are the only ones that have that 'soft' touch to deal with little children who need it. there's not many really highly paid jobs for very feminine women, though, unless they get a couple of real estate classes. then, you have the soft voice talking you into the deal of your life. hairdressers can be kittens, too. waitresses. there's a lot of responsible kittens in the world.
as long as a kitten pays taxes - the responsible citizen part is fulfilled.
agreed about dependence i suppose. but, in reality, who would be cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry? i think if both sexes appreciate the other - they can get a lot out of relationship (and give a lot). for instance, some might consider my relationship with my hubby as kitten to a sugar daddy. ok. he makes the money - but i also help him a lot because he'd never have clean clothing in the closet and would have to pay for childcare (very expensive nowdays). he's too tired at the end of the day to do all the stuff i do during the day. it works both ways. sometimes, i don't feel like cooking and he takes me out. then we have energy for other things. if you treat your mate as important - then they'll keep on working for you and you get the best of both worlds, right!
no offense taken, though - because i'm agreed about the occasional laziness. women need occasional pampering. it makes them more agreeable. guys may be revived by a $1.50 beer whereas a girl needs her hair done or new shoes/clothing. suppose it's not fair - but life never is.
Topic: Kittens -- and Valley Girls