girls can ride horses, too. some ride side saddle and others bareback. you just have to hang on and let your feelings out. perhaps this is an equalizing statement (as i hoped) and yet some chopin and rach and a few others write extremely large chords or arpeggios that fit a man's hand better. the waldstein actually fits in my hands very nicely and i don't have the trouble that i do with chopin. chopin still gives me fits. i am working the preludes and they seem a bit easier than the etudes right now. might go back to the etudes if i get motivated.
For me the question is meaningless. Even at the personal, imaginative level, I do not associate a gender with a piece of music.