i think what we all must understand is that you cannot lump, for example, an Italian roman catholic, an American evangelist and a priest from Surrey together. It is unfortunate that only the extreme aspects of Christanity are ever shown on the news, in the media etc. From my background, growing up in a small C of E church, it appears to me that the majority of bog standard ordinary anglicans understand that the creation is a story made up by people writing at the time, to best explain their surroundings and how they came to be there. We do not claim that evolution is the be all and end all of how we got here - it is currently our best explanation. What Christians must do is to look at the Bible from more than one angle - yes, it is God's word but it is God's word interpreted and percieved by people who lived 2000 years ago.
As a Christian I feel I have to try to find my own interpretation of what these people wrote down. So, I read a verse saying that a man should not lie with another man as with a woman, and understand that to mean that God does not want gay people. But, if you look at what Jesus has said, basically praising loving relationships, care and protection for you partner, then i cannot see how gay couples could be "wrong". There are many gay couples who are happier, more caring and loving than straight couples. The sense that i get from the Bible is one of overriding love.
I would label myself a liberal Christian. I am not evangelist, and i keep my beliefs pretty much to myself. My mother is a priest and I have felt the recieving end of bitter people within our own church who refuse to go when my mother is preaching. It is really sad and it is people who have this streak of sexism hammered into them when they were young who have marred my mother's journey in the church. However, looking at social, political and biblical circumstances, i can forgive them. They are too proud to admit they are ignorant.
I could go on for ages but the point is you cannot make ludicrous claims like "all christians are brainwashed" because you have probably only experienced the extremes of this religion, and not first hand. Go to a church one sunday. Go to different denominations - Baptist, C of E, Evangelist, maybe even Catholic. Then you can comment.