I have a student who has been playing piano for about 2 years (i started teaching her a couple of months ago)...she can't read music very well, she never/rarely looks up at her music when playing piano -- she has good ears....so i tried to teach her by ear - but that didn't work since she didn't remember it "perfectly" so she would always end up guessing the notes instead of actually playing the pieces. About a month ago, we started using the Schuam's primer level (she was almost done with Faber & Faber Level 1)....so i can teach her the basics. At first, she couldn't even play the very first piece nor read the notes correctly......She's still working on Schuam's primer level - she definitely got better with reading the notes - but when i ask her to play it on the piano, she keeps on playing the wrong notes...This student always gives me an attitude, NEVER practices, and I'm not quite sure whether she's "pretending" to not be able to read the notes or if she really doens't know it.....I'm wondering if she's completely hopeless, or if I'm doing something wrong as a teacher...
An other point, which already is named in the thread title:can't or won't ?Many students do, when they begin to learn piano (or another instrument) look and hear, what the teacher does, when he is playing the piece. In this state, it's much easier to just copy, what the teacher does than reading the music from the sheet. Because the students think, they don't need reading the music for playing the instrument, they really don't learn music reading. They could do it - but they don't. That's the root of the problem in my opinion.