I don't think there's a way to conceptualize TASTEFUL rubato.I just believe it comes from a lot of listening.
Ah ha ( it does )
It's something internal. It's not something you can drill, give to the State, lose or ever teach.
Yes, I agree. You must require the student to do the rubato, all the while refusing to teach it to him.
I don't agree here.Rubato is not a mysterious thing. There are rules for rubato. Of course you can let the students find them out for themselves. But I think, if you know some of the rules, you can shorten the learning process quite a lot.
Pianistimo was right--I was being funny. Require a student to do it but don't teach it? Come on, that's funny, admit it.
I thought, it was funny, but you never know... There are some teachers around they never ever will talk about the existence of a thing called "rubato". They will deny, that it exists. But they will not be content until their students make use of rubato in their playing. People are strange...
My favorite is when teachers tell you to do rubato with your right hand while the left hand keeps perfect time.
I don't think Rubato is appropriate for a studen of 12 years old, unless they're a virtuioso.In which case it is totally in appropriate.