As in previous threads, I have to ask what the hell the point of a post like this is at all. Alastair was right on the money when he basically said that "nothing I say will matter compared with how you already feel." And, after many posts, he's still right. The thread is loaded with typical forum b.s....a semantic piefight here, a bunch of playful frivolities there, and a good old heap of arrogance stinking through every post. Since you pretty much know what the drill is on this forum (you've been posting here for quite some time), why bother starting threads like this at all if the 10 wise men (who you've partitioned off from the violent mob) can't save the topics.
What ruins the forum in my opinion is essentially the fact that 95% of the people here are simply pianists who can't help but contextualize things in the small musical worlds they've carved out, usually delineated by what teacher tells them to do and what their friends at music school do. The other 5% talks a lot of high-minded speak and feels overly righteous amongst the pack. Both groups do little to stimulate positive discussion of any topic and everyone retreats to their self-righteous comfort zones. What's sad is that in something as abstract as an internet forum, people can't chill the hell out and spend less time getting high on their own motivations.
I've listened to the Carter sonata once or twice since this forum cropped up and I am honestly not prepared to start making statements about the music. I had never heard it before and, without leaning on this theory or that, I think it's a very dense and dynamic piece, maybe not one that reaches out and grabs me in any way (Carter's 5 string quartets were more immediately intriguing), but still one that deserves to be looked into for many of its subtle points of interest. I can't really say more until I actually look further into the score. Suffice to say that (and I'm not trying to be mean) your criticisms of the work are not strong or convincing because they oversimplify the discussion of a piece that is not done justice by a quickly summed-up paragraph of one's opinion.
Based on what you say about the hopelessness of this forum, I still wonder why you bother at all.
Now, if you will, what is a piece that you like that you would say succeeds where this one falls short, in your opinion?