Dear Musicalrebel4,
At first, when I saw your post and your video, I was suspicious about your method trying to sell your product and make as much as money as possible. I feel that you have vision about music, and passionate wanting to share your method and teaching music to young children. I am mother of 4 kids. (their age range from 10, 8, 3, and 8 months old )My son gave up 4 years ago. He was frustrated and painful learning the piano. He swears that he will never get near the piano again. My daughter has been learning the piano since 4 years old . The obstacle, the pain, tear and frustration to learn the music score, I feel like almost child abuse to put my child into all these anxieties. I just don't understand why it is so hard for kids to learn the music note, it's only 8 letters ( C.D, E, F, G, A, B, C). Your method I think my daughter will like it. Like you said " not everyone has computer system at home, do you do manual ( like books. some visual object to help kids to focus their music score). Honestly, I don't want to make the same mistake again, I also like my 3 years old son to learn the piano in fun way. He is quite cleaver, he can remember lots of dinosaurs' name. He can count from 1 to 10. But come to piano key, the trouble starts, first he doesn't sit still enough, he won't open his fingers. Do you come cross this situation. How to do deal with kids like this. Is he not ready to learn the piano yet? What is the approach dealing with hyperactive kids like mine? I like my son to learn the piano now, because he watches TV too much. He has lots of time at home. It will be wonderful like your students to learn and enjoy music .
Do you find girl l easier concentration than boy? I can't agree more why shouldn't learning piano be as popular as learning football or other sports? I also play the piano I enjoy it and l love music. Music is fruit to the soul. I hope I can give it to my kids.
Dear Dora,
Thank you very much for you nice and sincere comment!
First, let me start with personal story.
I also a mother of soon to be 21 year old daughter. I started teaching her piano traditional way, when she was 5, but it didn't work well.
After that we immigrated to the USA and I was practically trying to survive teaching music and piano 6 days a week from 6 AM (yes! Some daycares open that early!) 'till 8 PM and had no time or strength to give lessons to my own child.
Later on we developed a computerized version of my system. At this time my daughter was a teenager. Every time when she got in troubles, I took her car keys and instead of TV offered her to practice on my program. At first she was very rebellious, but had nothing else to do and learned one music piece after another. One day she came to me and asked: 'Mom, you forgot to remind me that I have to practice my piano'.
Today she developed huge love for music. She loves to sight-read new pieces, to learn Chopin and Bach, she also is a part of Indonesian orchestra and she is collecting more and more CDs of classical music. She told me that the ability to interact with computer without anyone watching over her shoulder was the big plus for her piano development.
Now things changed and he insists for me to be at her side during the lessons and explain many professional things to her.
Now let's return to your comment. I want to tell you that to teach your own kids is a big challenge, because they consider you as a 'mommy' and act accordingly. I was witnessing during my piano lessons how kids behave with their parents around and without. So, it is not your fault that your kids were not as successful as you want them to be as your piano students. But let me assure you that your 10 and 8 are not lost for music education! My daughter was 15 when she fell in love with music.
As to teaching 3-year-old, there are some 'tricks' that I have to make them cooperate. Small children LOVE to do something with their hands and fingers. Remember how they love the song Eency-Weency Spider? Development of fine motor skills in this age is very important for their overall development. Take the hand of you 3-year-old child and say: 'Oh, your fingers are locked! Let's unlock them with a key!'
Take an imaginary 'key' and pretend like you are 'unlocking' his fingers. He would love this game! Everything has to be a play and the game at this age! I also use 'music money' for my lessons, because toddlers think concrete and every time they make successful move they SEE the reword. After the lessons they buy with music money some goodies (it's up to you what to chose – party favors, candies etc)
Here some exercises that you can teach you son. Toddlers love these exercises. As soon as they get them, they try to play them everywhere!
-https://www.doremifasoft.com/frvipiex.html
You also can download and try my free Demos of our program and try them with your older kids. The main page is here -https://www.doremifasoft.com/dopr.html.
You just have to go inside of every program and find free download link.
Boys and girls are the same in learning, if to do it wisely. Attention span and ability to concentrate also can be developed. b
And at last I have to tell you: yes, we are not offering our program for free. I would love to, but I can't. In order to keep the project going, we have to sell our software. But I dedicate my time, knowledge and efforts to any educators with no charge and help as much as I can to expend their horizons. So, feel free to contact me any time by phone or email. I always respond and help as much as I can! Here the contact info: -https://www.doremifasoft.com/info.html