I speak for myself, but I find the whole 'lack of social graces' just as intolerable from a man as a woman.
I once visited a forum where there were a lot of people who talked as if there was some sort of war between the sexes. They actually had a term called "The Lace Curtain", the idea was that there was some sort of systemized emasculation of men in the culture, which came about as feminism went a bit beyond the mark. TV sitcoms were a common example, where it's common that the male characters are goofy morons kept in line by the sensible women, I think 'King of Queens' might have been the best example (I don't watch much TV really). Also a lot of articles about men getting screwed over in divorce courts, crazy things that extremist feminists have said, and things like that.
This mentality is dangerous, if someone wants to find a war, they will. A lot of these guys became miserable self-righteous misogynists, for no reason at all. Nothing was actually happening to any of them, they were just getting themselves riled up.
I'm not pointing the finger at you Petter! Just tangenting, and after seeing that mentality at work, I'm always noticing when things turn to 'man vs woman'...
Reminds me of the Leonard Cohen song, 'There Is A War':
There is a war between the rich and poor,
a war between the man and the woman.
There is a war between the left and right,
a war between the black and white,
a war between the odd and the even.
Why don't you come on back to the war, pick up your tiny burden,
why don't you come on back to the war, let's all get even,
why don't you come on back to the war, can't you hear me speaking?