This might be controversial, but I have come to the conclusion that music lessons can actually be harmful is kids don't practice.
I think what that ends up teaching them is - a. to hate music lessons, and b. that they are failures and have no talent - when this is very likely not the case - and more, I don't think it even requires a ton of talent. I didn't used to think this way, but I believe
everyone is capable of learning music - the same as learning how to read, speak, think, do math... etc. But - you can't learn how to read without practicing it - nor how to think, without reading, and practicing critical thinking or writing, or learn math without doing your homework. But, if you don't practice stuff, it's *impossible* to improve at anything.
What I see more than anything is parents not taking an active role in the process.... It ends up
ensuring their failure. (for young kids I mean) I'm not sure why this happens... I've had parents say to me - "well, we are busy and you should know there isnt' going to be a lot of practicing - we don't want him/her to be a concert pianist etc" ... Why would you want to set limits on your children right from the start? How does that benefit them in any way for anything?
LOL - sorry -this topic was about method books...
