maybe you need to teach yourself relaxation?
eeh Thanks for the responses.
Some students find the need to learn something in their own time... Or, as in some cases, the teacher makes the situation for them where they have to think deeper, or else leave some words/ demonstrations to ponder. At least that's what my teachers do sometimes for me.
Like you seem to imply, not everyone is obsessed about music like you are, and you are struggling to approach students who do not have much desire.
Go, seriously . Spare the poor winky .
have a good day!
I really think you should start a new thread for this comment.
Karli, It's okay to begin a thread, however, just keep it direct and simple so we can contrive what you are implying.
Go, sorry, but how am I "supposed" to respond to you after this comment ? In any event, if you were sincere in your responses to me, I apologize if I have somehow offended you. But, it's difficult to actually know for sure these days around here. I guess I should not have posted about this in the first place as I realize I really need to ask my mentor specifically, and I have actually some specific questions that I don't want to ask here in fact ... ha ha. I was trying to save him the trouble, but I realize that my question is truly for him (as I stated further up). And, if this has been a useless thread, Nils has my invitation to delete it, and, as is the case with you, I will also busily go back to my own business.
You know, java,it is irrevelvant when a fellow member has to end his wonderful dissertation, and then to utter that, go "really doesn't know what she is saying" just bears fruit that your knowledge can't be any superior than any other members in this forum.
Except that you never post anything useful.
I need to be more aware of bringing out the individuality of my students later.
If you give us the tools, does that not enable us to bring out our own individuality?
The individual, is course. And besides, I know about paint brushes and such though. And the "box" as you are inferring is the fundamentals, correct?
There was no special meaning to "box". It's just where I tucked my paintbrushes. My response was mainly to Karli, because your response had not appeared whiel I was writing.If we have the tools, then the rest is up to us. The innate substance, whatever it is that we are born with, leads us, and awakens over time. We need the tools.KS
If we have the tools, then the rest is up to us. The innate substance, whatever it is that we are born with, leads us, and awakens over time. We need the tools.KS
I think it does not "Wake up over time". I think rather, some experience (Or set of experiences) triggers it. I think also that a skillful teacher can cause these events to happen, rather than take the chance that it will eventually work itself out.
I guess I am struggling a little right now in knowing how to approach the individual student.
Sorry Karli, your message is so long that I just desided to shorten it and get to the very essense of it (i.e. the very first sentense), so I'll try to answer it in the same short manner:1) See every student of yours as your own child and treat them accordingly, accepting them as grown up persons, rather than kids,2) Accept and talk to your students as to adults. Music is about whole range of human emotions. Don't afraid that language and emotions. Kids are much smarter than we give them credit for. They will trust you much more if you are treating them as adults.3) Take responsibility for every student of yours--that's the part of the profession, that's the part of the deal, and this responsibility comes back to the 1).Best, M