Birba, I really enjoy your posts, and I learned a lot from your Waldstein video and your approach to Becky, even if she was not who she seemed. You play beautifully and both your praise and critiques in the audition room are generous, specific and constructive.
Since I actually am an older beginner who practices a lot and can play moderately well (at least for an older beginner), I was inspired by the guy I thought Roger was. I should have noticed a couple of things - real Marines don't call themselves ex-Marines (once a Marine, always a Marine) and he claimed to have gotten a bit of shrapnel in his hand during the first Gulf War, but in fact the Marines were kept off-shore as a reserve threat and didn't get into the fighting that time around, because it was over so fast. But I wanted to believe his story, so I wasn't skeptical enough.
In any case, I hope you stay around. I've learned a lot from you and others here. One feels stupid after being duped, perhaps, but it's a sign of kindness and generosity that one can be duped in the first place; and the only way to be sure one will never get taken is to become a cranky hermit.
Bill