Keep at it!! I was one of those 'prodded at 8 or 10' kids Because it is something entirely new, it does take time. When stuff clicks though, there is no better feeling.Listen to a lot of recordings of music; browse IMSLP for scores, try bits and pieces of stuff; do lots of scales and exercises; it's really good that you have started looking at theory.Just try to immerse yourself in any way you can; you will start really appreciating what you are learning!