While I don't disapprove of noticing the combined rhythm (which is what words give) I think it's a risky strategy to dwell too much on that. Some people even have words for 3 against 4, which strikes me as a hindrance, not an aid. The art to cross-rhythm is independence. It's two things, not one. Thinking too much about the combination leads to a heavy and overly notey feel. A well executed 2 against three rarely sounds or feels like a syncopation- which is what looking at the combined rhythm promotes. It should generally just flow through with simplicity. It's good to accent the hell out of the note a few times, to bring out the sense of displacement. But then you have to forget about it- and turn it into something that sounds normal (not spiky and brash).
Once you've noticed where the second note of the two falls, you need to start feeling total independence. The trick is to get a metronome running and practising alternating between a series of twos and the threes without pause. Eventually, instead of switching from one hand to the other, just happen to carry on with the other hand too.