OK, so I've been pretty dismissive of metronomes in this thread, so let me take a step back.
A pianist needs to be able to play with rhythm, pulse and timing. If playing with others, you need to match the rhythm, pulse and timing of those others. I cannot see that that is at all arguable (or that anyone is trying).
With the possible exception of modern dance music (and then solely for the convenience of mixers and djs) music is played best when that pulse, rhythm and timing is, to a greater or lesser degree depending on the style of the piece, flexible in line with the musical demands of the piece. In classical and jazz (and no doubt much else), no halfway decent performance ignores this. For ensembles, obviously there has to be a common approach, meaning that an individual player has to be in time with the common pulse and rhythm (or in some instances, such as a jazz soloist, interact with it).
In order to achieve the ability to do this, a pianist needs to develop a highly accurate sense of pulse, rhythm and timing. That needs to be completely internalised. It also needs to be well enough ingrained to allow it to be responsive to the demands of ensemble playing, whether that be metronomically exact or in line with a common ebb and flow.
Many pianists find this problematic (particularly in their early development), and some kid themselves that they have this ability.
A metronome may be a useful device to assist in developing this ability, or in checking that one has it to the degree required. If a person finds that to be the case, then by all means use it. But ONLY for the purpose of that development.
A metronome may also act as a crutch, being used as a substitute for that internal development, and possibly hindering it. In these cases, it's regular or routine use should be avoided at all costs. It may still be used occassionally and intermittently to assist with difficult passages, or to check progress.
The important thing is the end (a highly developed internal sense of pulse, rhythm and timing), not the means by which it is achieved.