I believe in love at first sight

[m1469]

And after a while she was not only "in love at first 'sight'" but also "convinced" that I must be the love of her life.

Perhaps for her you were .  I think it's possible to really know these things very quickly, and sometimes whether that's true or not, the connection can still be very convincing.  And, some people are looking for this in particular ways, too.  Of course, it's a different story if it's one-sided vs. mutual.

But then she started to say things like "oh we have time to practice for the rest of our live, now we should care for relationships, because that's all that will remain. And you think you need to realize yourself in the material world by taking part in a competition, that's materialistic" And more and worse stuff like that. Needless to say, that not only I was gone as fast as the wind, but that she had spoiled it with me for once and forever.

I am not willing to be a wheel in prearranged life concepts that others make up for me, to fill up the huge black holes they have in their lives while they behave like those huge black holes were a sign of enlightenment.

I certainly don't have all the answers, but it seems that both of these parts have to do with overall life views, values, priorities, and goals.  While those may not precisely match up exactly with somebody else's, it's important that there is a compatibility.  Personally, I am happy anyway that you stuck with what matters to you and what you feel is important for your own development and growth, and in particular I am glad that you did the competition, since it seemed it was important to you!

[ahinton]

OK - let's change the perspective here for a moment; supposing someone said that they believe in m1469 at first sight?...

OK - as you were...

Best,

Alistair

[pianowolfi]

Perhaps for her you were .  I think it's possible to really know these things very quickly, and sometimes whether that's true or not, the connection can still be very convincing.  And, some people are looking for this in particular ways, too.  Of course, it's a different story if it's one-sided vs. mutual.

I certainly don't have all the answers, but it seems that both of these parts have to do with overall life views, values, priorities, and goals.  While those may not precisely match up exactly with somebody else's, it's important that there is a compatibility.  Personally, I am happy anyway that you stuck with what matters to you and what you feel is important for your own development and growth, and in particular I am glad that you did the competition, since it seemed it was important to you!

Yeah I listen to you always with an open ear and mind But yes, there was much more going on in this case that I can't write here, that made a relationship totally impossible for me, though it first looked like we had like 80% common interests, and though she and I even might, at some point in time, meet each other and perhaps have a friendship. It wasn't only that thing with the competition, that was only one little symptom. And those other things made me so angry that I exploded, not outwardly, but inwardly. And really heavyly! 

 

[m1469]

Yeah I listen to you always with an open ear and mind But yes, there was much more going on in this case that I can't write here, that made a relationship totally impossible for me, though it first looked like we had like 80% common interests, and though she and I even might, at some point in time, meet each other and perhaps have a friendship. It wasn't only that thing with the competition, that was only one little symptom. And those other things made me so angry that I exploded, not outwardly, but inwardly. And really heavyly!  

Yes, sure, listening to these reactions and learning from them anyway, one way or another, seems progressive.

OK - let's change the perspective here for a moment; supposing someone said that they believe in m1469 at first sight?...

OK - as you were...

Best,

Alistair

   I actually don't know exactly what to think, but it seems interesting and thought-provoking in a non-personal sense, anyway, that people can or do express love, even before ever being met and seen by certain others.  Meeting certain others may enhance or define love in new ways, but love existed already (in some degree) and could logically of course be felt, known, experienced upon a first meeting.  Don't know if that's what you intended, but, I can't help but think things through  .

For the magic is in the soul.

Yeah, I think there's a little somethin' somethin' going on with the soul .

[Bob]

*Bob falls in love with nachos and salsa at first sight.*

Actually it's not really first sight.  I've seen them before.  And it' not really love.  More like hunger.

*Bob eats those nachos.*

[m1469]

*m1469 falls in love with Bob's nachos without even having seen them at all*

*chews gum and practices Rachmaninov*

[Bob]

I don't think you want them now.  Or to see them.

But you can have them when I'm done with them.  Haha.

[Bob]

That was gross.

*Bob brings out new nachos.*

[m1469]

*m1469 first lurks in the shadows, only her blinking eyes visible at times*

*She is lured out a bit and begins wildly swooping and circling around the nachos, taking nibbles*

[Bob]

Now I'm hungry again.  *Bob removes all the peppers and tomatoes.*  Bleh..

[Bob]

*Bob doesn't hover or nibble.  He chows down on chips and salsa while it's still there.*

[Bob]

There's one.  Back on topic...

https://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/love-first-sight-dentist-hopes-mystery-woman-again-152944544--abc-news-topstories.html?_esi=1

[m1469]

There's one.  Back on topic...

https://news.yahoo.com/blogs/abc-blogs/love-first-sight-dentist-hopes-mystery-woman-again-152944544--abc-news-topstories.html?_esi=1

Yeah, if I were him I'd probably think something random like "Agh!  Why didn't we do something crazy together like drive to the beach in the middle of night and run all around on the sand and be completely in our own world until sunrise!?" ... heeeyyyy wait a minute ... I have red hair and some freckles ... hmmmm ... do you think he's looking for me?  Oh, I've never been to Ireland.

[ranniks]

I think I get what you mean m1469. There was this girl I knew once. I don't know why I liked her, but something in me thought I knew something hidden deep in her.

Well the girl broke my heart as always the stories with introverts like me, but the point of my sobby story: love at first sight is a beautifull thing, even if it is not returned. Maybe it is the humanity we love that we find in that special person rather than wanting them.

[m1469]

I suppose it's different for different people, but yes, for me there is some element of the humanity part.  Lots of people have a sense of humanity, and some people seem noticeably special as it relates to this, too (and I don't just mean mere "charisma").  That's not all though.  

To me, love at first sight seems to be a phenomenon where something is recognized which was already in existence, and the really important part beyond the experience of "first sight" is that it exists at all - that's part of what makes the experience of "first sight" shocking.  I value the existence. 

[pianowolfi]

I believe in more, always more (except human love, at least at the time) The more I believe, the more my words disappear. Music gets stronger but words do disappear.

[m1469]

I believe in more, always more (except human love, at least at the time) The more I believe, the more my words disappear. Music gets stronger but words do disappear.

I can appreciate this.  I'm still a writer, though  .




*hangs out and waits for more of Bob's nachos to show up*

[lostinidlewonder]

Oh yeah I forgot about food, drooooooool.

Human love is complicated, I think true love is where you are willing to have the good times but also expect and work out the bad ones. How often are people's perspective so bias that they only want the good times and as soon as something puts a rock in the way they give up and run away! We must be able to clash as well as we love. I guess that is why there is so many divorces, sad really. You will never find a human to love where you ONLY have good times with, it is just not possible ever. I also think that would be rather bland and boring and unchallenging and unrewarding and and....

[Bob]

I did overhear Lebenschlafsch-somthing on How I Met Your Mother tonight.  Very complete idea from what I heard.

[m1469]

Oh yeah I forgot about food, drooooooool.

Human love is complicated, I think true love is where you are willing to have the good times but also expect and work out the bad ones. How often are people's perspective so bias that they only want the good times and as soon as something puts a rock in the way they give up and run away! We must be able to clash as well as we love. I guess that is why there is so many divorces, sad really. You will never find a human to love where you ONLY have good times with, it is just not possible ever. I also think that would be rather bland and boring and unchallenging and unrewarding and and....

A'right, Losty.  Put your dukes up.  I'm ready to have it out.  Bring it on, dude ... bring it.  You 'spect I'ma gonna be mrs. nicey nice all the time ... hmmm?  Do ya'??  I'm not nice, I'm mean, I'm mad, I'm bad!  


*puts fists in fighting position and shuffles feet wildly around*

*accidentally nails Bob*

[Bob]

Fine, fine....

[m1469]

*swoops in from out of nowhere*

*immediately devours nachos, popcorn, pretzels, and plate, all in one gulp* mmmm

[Bob]

I guess those nachos include a pretzel and kettle corn.


*Bob picks all the peppers and tomatoes off his nachos again.*



*Except for that one pepper on the lower left.*

[m1469]

HA!  I got there first, man!  They're gone!

[Bob]

Speaking of annoying things...  

   Hm...  *Bob takes his share of the nachos and *then* puts the plate out.*




These pretzels... are making me thirsty.

[Bob]

Hope that's guacamole.

[m1469]

Ah gawd, I'm so thristy!  

[Bob]

Fluffy guards the nachos.    Ha!




(Or what Bob thought he was hiring.)










(What Bob actually got instead.)

[Bob]

(Bob makes a subtle substitution....)

[Bob]

(Bob speeds ahead to the m1469 playing a harp or something, whatever that was...)



Darnit.


Speaking of which, I'm out too...zzzzz.

[m1469]

aawwww ... cute puppies  .  When did I play the harp? hmmm?

I'm going to sleep, too!  I declare it!  I'm going to sleeps early so I can wake early and follow my dreams   .  Goodnight pupps, I'll fight ya' laterz, Losty.  See ya' in the morgen, forum!   <---- night sleeper thingies

*casts a spell for everybody to fall madly in love tomorrow* 

[outin]

Speaking of annoying things...  

   Hm...  *Bob takes his share of the nachos and *then* puts the plate out.*




These pretzels... are making me thirsty.

This thread finally got interesting...There are two things in life I love unconditionally: Myself and food

[m1469]

This thread finally got interesting...There are two things in life I love unconditionally: Myself and food

Ah!  My love spell is already working its magic, I see!  

*tippy toes towards Sleepyville*

[Bob]

(Bob removes the "ostrich pillow" from each dog head.)  I'm not sure these are really necessary....







That is one of the stupidest products I've ever seen.   (Bob has no love at first sight for ostrich pillows.)

(Dog heads resume protection, but the nachos have mysteriously disappeared overnight.)

[Bob]

(Admiral Ackbar randomly wanders through, admiring the ostrich pillows.)

[m1469]

Oh gosh.  I think I've actually seen that before ... maybe in a sky magazine in an airplane?

Anybody falling madly in love yet?

*Ups the dosage and dusts everybody a few more times*

[Bob]

I'm falling asleep.  Does that count?

[m1469]

I think I'm going to go ahead and count that.  Seeing as I don't want to believe that I do not possess magic powers, I'll consider this occurrence as a success story for the day.  


*casts more spell all over the land*

*turns pts1 into a gentlemanly prince*  



PS - I'd still enjoy a good fight, Losty!  

[lostinidlewonder]

A'right, Losty.  Put your dukes up.  I'm ready to have it out.  Bring it on, dude ... bring it.  You 'spect I'ma gonna be mrs. nicey nice all the time ... hmmm?  Do ya'??  I'm not nice, I'm mean, I'm mad, I'm bad!  


*puts fists in fighting position and shuffles feet wildly around*

*accidentally nails Bob*

You hit like a girl!!     Wait..... That hurt.... *curls up in foetal position and rocks side to side. Lolol

[Bob]

*Beginning to suspect that wasn't an accident.*  Hmm.

[pianowolfi]

m1469 I think your spell is working. I find myself madly in love with disenchantment
And Rachmaninoff, again

[Bob]

You hit like a girl!!     Wait..... That hurt.... *curls up in foetal position and rocks side to side. Lolol

Like this?  Punch happens at 1:06 here.

[m1469]

You hit like a girl!!     Wait..... That hurt.... *curls up in foetal position and rocks side to side. Lolol

*gives LIW some milk and cookies* 

m1469 I think your spell is working. I find myself madly in love with disenchantment
And Rachmaninoff, again

Yes, sure, success! 



Everyday is "first sight" I guess.

[unholeee]

yes!!!

kind of like a sexy voice on the phone

more like lust if sight is taken literally, i couldnt image feeling much from just a glance of someone.

though pedantic, even though you infer meeting and talking, then ofcourse.

but really...whos the guy huh.



i find the back is worse off in that position and hence i keep jolting awake (lots of experience at work) so stupidist invention is likely a candidate, right up there with an electronic keyboards that can play 200 sounds (and not any of them well)

[m1469]

*sneaks in*







*opens a giant, gaping hole in the sky*









*sucks Bob's dogs into it*










*closes the sky*












*eats nachos*













*quietly leaves*

[Bob]

*Watches m1469 leaf out after eating the magical leaf-producing nachos.*

[m1469]

*goes with it*


*forms it into a cleanly groomed body-beard in order to become the greatest composer in the world*  

[m1469]

*turns pts1 back into a lampooner, not just a charming prince*

*he's a charming lampooner, that's why his name is lampoony*

[Bob]

Makes perfect sense.

[m1469]

I'm hereby casting a spell upon myself ...

*sprinkles dust*

I would like to get a crush back on Glenn Gould


BOOM, done.