Thanks to all for responding. I really had my eyes opened today. I misunderstood so many things. I counted wrong, played it wrong, thought about it wrong, used the metronome wrong and had a revelation about time signatures to be sure.
I never knew changing time signatures can change the tempo for openers.
Also, This changes things rather profoundly for me.
For example, a measure in 2/4 time that has four eighth notes is followed by a measure in 3/8 that has three eighth notes. How do I handle it now that my eyes have been opened and having had a revelation?
I think of the measure in 2/4 time as being in 4/8 time. I count to four and NOT 1+2+. The measure in 3/8 I just count to three. The Metronome is now simply clicking away beating eighths the entire time. I get it completely thinking and playing, feeling and hearing it this way.
I can hear what the other performers on YouTube are playing, follow the score, counting all the while and it makes sense now.
Thanks Dr about the L'istesso tempo. I had never heard of it.
Thanks werq for the, "Eighth notes are eighth notes". That really helped me, Joe.