ok. the line is Gm7 for 2 bars, Dm for 2 bars, Gm7 for 2 bars, Dm for 2 bars, Ebmaj7 for 2 bars, Abmaj7 for 2 bars. and I'd usually play the notes on the page, but he doesn't want me to do that any more, he want's me to follow the chords, and play my own style, but all I know how to do is play what's on the page.
OK.
Start by working on some different chord "voicings" (which incase you don't understand, just means different combinations of the notes that make up that chord).
So you're in a band? like a big band kinda thing? You probably have a bass player which means the root of the chord is going to be managed by him/her and you don't need to worry about it. So with that in mind construct your chords initially with the 3rd and 7th..
So in the progression wrote, thats like this..
For Gm7 - Bb and F
For EbM7 - G and D
for AbM7 - C and G
The Dm is trickier because you didnt give any more harmony and I don't know exactly what key you're in.. but its probably F and C, but its possible that the tune has some alteration that will effect the chord, especially on the 5th, 9th, 13th etc.
Note also that these 3rd and 7ths I've listed can be reversed, so it could be 7th and 3rd instead.. use both options so you dont have to jump around all over the piano.
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Play the 3/7 part in the LH.
In the RH, play other chord tones, such as 5th, 9th and root. Experiment with different options, see what you like the sound of.
Generally, you're LH will play in the octave below middle C, and the RH the one above middle C.
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Now, rhythm.
Below is an image with a whole bunch of rhythm patterns. They are not necessarily ideal for comping, but they will get you to play your chords in a lot of different ways.. Consider them to either be swing OR straight. Practice both. Practice combining them, so rather than endlessly repeating one, you do one then another, then another etc..

EDIT:
..here are some more basic ones
