... Anyway, I came to this site for helpful advice. If this is the best advice you can give then perhaps I will look elsewhere...
Oh, 2 and 1/2 years? I've almost mistook you for a piano teacher. Anyways, thank you for your advice! I will get back to practising piano, good luck to you as well.
Yeah, there is a hard song I've been learning to play but I am only starting 16th notes. When I play 8th notes on my left and 16th notes on the right, my left hand automatically speeds up as well, something that I don't know how to control.
Edit: I don't know how soft MP is supposed to be, or how loud MF is supposed to be (mezzo-piano and mezzo-forte). Also when reading sheet music, I can't "read ahead" which people say is supposed to be a requirement. I am always concentrating on the current notes in front of me instead. And no, I rarely feel pain from playing piano. Probably because I don't spend long on it... I have some trouble doing Legato or Staccato smoothly as well.The key signatures are also hard to remember. I know how it works, but just looking at it takes me 5 minutes to transfer to the piano (if my wording makes any sense).
Let me see if I've got this right. You've been playing for 3-4 years, practicing about 5 minutes a day, and have got to Grade 4. You are unhappy with your progress and have blamed and dismissed your teacher. You are now hoping that we here can make those 5 minutes somehow count more, ideally much more.