Also it took me quite a while to realise that music 'in a space' is actually 'on a line' to a child who is being taught to write very carefully on the lines at school.
I'm a firm believer that there's no use trying to get children to recognise notes on a page until they can recognise them by ear and sing them. And there's no use being too abstract about the recognition and singing of them - it has to relate to natural singing material. There are pretty well-researched developmental aspects to the order in which that emerges, and at age 5 it's a long way off stepwise minor scales.
Try asking ' Is this the same or different?'If she says 'Different', ask 'how is it different'. That should give you some feel for how she is viewing things.Also it took me quite a while to realise that music 'in a space' is actually 'on a line' to a child who is being taught to write very carefully on the lines at school. Draw arrows at the beginning of the stave indicating up and down and show how although 'up' on the stave sounds higher, it is played to the right on the piano because that is where the higher sounds are. And vice versa of course.