My first concern is that you already have a set idea about how learning should occur based on these statements
The problem is that learning doesn't actually work the way you think it does nor can anyone tell what's actually going on in your mind as you learn.
In fact, confusion is necessary because it indicates that your brain is reaching out to form new connections. After confusion comes uncertainty and then it settles on something it is certain on. This is when the brain has severed useless connection and, assuming it's the right connections, it should be practiced so that it is strengthened.
If you understand this and still really want that roadmap, then you should look to various schools' syllabi. However, none of them produce high quality, effortless technique, nor do they provide exceptional musicianship. You'll be able to get through notes, and may sound nice, but you won't be a musician, which is the ultimate goal, to be able to communicate in the aural arts.
Thanks. I mean it . You know, I can actually, truly hear your intention like a tone of voice as I read this - I can't help it. Do you believe it? It's true. I can also interpret your actual past from it, as a result, because you unintentionally communicated an honest feeling and experience . And, for me as a learner, feeling/hearing somebody's intention is perhaps the biggest portion of my learning with that individual because it affects the potency, or literal vibration, of the "message." While this thread is not about me, I think it's important to be aware that a teacher's intention can play an enormous role in communicating (or not communicating) information, in whatever form, especially with highly sensitive students, and it can greatly affect a student's relationship with the desired result.Do you think that to a "creative mind" and within the right context, reading something like that is any less helpful or is any more deadening (even if presented in a dry, monotone way) to creativity than is a teacher pushing dynamic confusion "for the sake of certainty?" How do you know what I (or anybody else) do or do not take from something like that? Or how it does or doesn't help me (or anybody else) to be anchored and creative at the same time? Hmmm?
Lastly, do both of you have any books you would like to suggest?
My intention was primarily to steer the boat in the best direction possible because the ocean is a mine field. If you don't already know the path, any wrong turn can sink your battleship. Things like finger exercises, for example, do more harm than good because it deadens your senses and conditions you to think that physical exertion is good when it is not. The path of least resistance is the path that leads you to your destination soonest. You don't want to waste time trying to rebuild your ship out in the open sea when there are still hundreds of active mines floating about. Worst still are the other boats that have been sunk encouraging you to chart their way. I've sunk my boat way too many times but now I know the course well enough.