Funny, I did almost the same thing a year ago (Dennis Matsuev playing rach 3 with Valery Gergiev at carnegie hall). You're going to be aware of the people who surround you a lot more, and you're not gonna talk much, obviously, during the intermission. Honestly, I don't think the experience is that different when you don't have someone to go with you.
How does it feel to go for a concert alone when none of your friends can make it ? It's also in another city (1.5hours flight) on a weekday.
First time I went to a concert all alone was during my university years. I felt rather strange, but I really wanted to go ... a nice man sat next to me, he turned out to have the same exam I was working on, even though he had done it 10 years earlier. We had a very nice conversation about this during the intermission. The concert was wonderful, by the way.Later on, I have learned that this happens almost every time I go to a concert; I just happen to sit next to a nice person, we talk - sometimes much, sometimes little, but it is nearly always an interesting experience. During the last years I sometimes know the artist performing and that gives me 2 advantages: you have a lot of interesting things to discuss with the audience ... (I don't mean personal gossip, of course) and afterwards you go and talk to the artist and meet a friend who is even more interested in the concert than you are ... If you don't know the artist performing? Well, coming to the concert alone is a big advantage if you like to meet him/her. A crowd of hysterical fans don't stand a chance, a single person easily sneaks in backstage if there is something called backstage, especially if you don't behave like an idiot.I often find it easier to listen and to meditate over the music if I'm alone. The worst company you can have at a concert is a friend who is not as fond of the music as you are, and spends his time sighing over the whole event, looking at his watch, or making dry remarks about the performance, and at the first opportunity hisses "shall we go?" Such a person can ruin the experience totally. When I'm alone, I do whatever I want, stay as long as I want (and sneak backstage if I want too, yeah!) and enjoy the performance as much as I want. Or leave, if I want.
Hi holly88,I go to movies alone, restaurants, the mall, the gym, vacation and for long walks all alone. Yes, I go to concerts, broadway shows and just about any other event/thing even parties alone if I want to. I DO NOT let lack of company dictate what I can do or where I can go.On a long drive, I use my hands free cell phone so I have someone to talk to. I almost always find someone, somewhere, someplace to talk to. People on the bus, in the Taxi, in the toll booths, on the elevator and even the bathroom. I get lonely, what can I say? So, you ask how does it feel? Well, sometimes I feel guilty when I'm having a blast and I know one of my friends is missing out. I feel AMBIVALENT both happy and sad! Yet, at times I forget I'm alone. One plus is that I come and go as I please meaning I eat what, when and where I want. I call it a night when I want or not and I can stay put as long as I want even all night.All this and more, Joe.P.S. Welcome to Pianostreet!P.P.S. No, it's definitely NOT crazy! It's crazy to not go.
I started doing this frequently in my undergrad years. There was a $10 for youth program in place. These weren't nosebleed seats either, they were the $50-$90 orchestral or mezzanine seats. You didn't get to pick your seat, but what ever they gave you was generally a great place to sit. Really, for that price why wouldn't you go frequently.Being alone felt strange at first, but I quickly realized that my senses could be much more attuned to the music and what was going on. No distractions, no person next to you doodling on their phone, no person that randomly wants to engage in academic debate during the middle of a piece, no waiting for people to arrive because they are stuck in traffic. I could stay for the reception, eat what I want, leave when I want, chat with the artist as long as I want. Was also able to meet some wonderful people along the way.In other words, go for it. You may even enjoy it more than you think.
sounds really good! Are there always opportunities to meet the artists at all concerts?
Feels normal. That's how I go to concerts. I think you get better pick of the seats and can leave faster since it's just you.
Ahaha, I did the same thing too for Lugansky's Rach 3. I always go by myself though.
It is absolutely worth it. Don't miss out on a Rachmaninoff concerto because your friends aren't going.
This particular venue I spoke about frequently makes opportunities to meet the artists. Things like interviewer-artist chats during intermission, as well as pre and post concert receptions. Artists and symphony musicians often roam the reception floor, so there is plenty of opportunity to strike up conversation.
Topic: Going to a concert alone? 