It's not a question of building or developing strength. The thing is, you have the requisite strength already. What equalizes all the fingers, (and makes them feel equally strong) is the fact that the arm participates with each finger equally. You have the weight of the hand and forearm to help each finger overcome the resistance of the keys. Since it's the same forearm/hand behind each finger, each finger feels equally strong. With a coordinate technic, the 4th finger will feel just as strong as the 2nd or 3rd finger.
Several pieces I am playing at the moment (roughly Grade 6 standard) I am having the same issue - namely that the melody in the right hand is too weak when using fingers 4+5 and fingers 1,2 & 3 which are providing harmonies/accompaniment are consistently too loud and clunky - particularly my thumb.Anyone got any tips or suggested exercises on how I can strengthen fingers 4+5 and get a much more delicate action with my thumb?