There is a subtopic and it has come up in two threads, and I think I'd like to address it.
arguing with your teacher about basic technique... I saw college students do this to professors from time to time... they didn't stay in the program very long...
it's always been my theory that is the real reason so many people struggle with technique--they wouldn't listen in the beginning. All this complaining about bad teaching lately..
not one word about the poor teacher who tries and tries to get the student to listen...
It ain't easy guys... that's why I get especially angry when people complain bitterly about it -- who have never tried to do it themselves.
First, the type of scenario you describe. Say for example you are trying to give your students reading skills, but they write in finger numbers as a crutch and use that plus memorizing. With that kind of strategy, the student will not gain reading skills. If the student moves and transfers to another teacher, that teacher may say "Omg, this child had two years of lessons and still can't read! What kind of teacher was that!" though if the same attitude continues, the new teacher will figure it out. But really, this is unfair to the teacher, and hence your frustration.
One aspect is that the student and/or parent may be looking at the end result - that piece of music, learned as fast as possible, so it sounds nice. The teacher is looking at skills she wants to build in stages, which will support that playing. The fastest route to this week's piece is not necessarily any kind of route to skills that are needed. There is a disconnect as each inhabits a different world. There has to be cooperation or the thing won't work.
That said, I also have a huge sense of caution when I read this:
arguing with your teacher about basic technique... I saw college students do this to professors from time to time... they didn't stay in the program very long...
it's always been my theory that is the real reason so many people struggle with technique--they wouldn't listen in the beginning.
This would be true if every teacher were fully competent, not only knowing how technique etc. worked, but also how to shape it in a student - and if every student correctly understand what he was being asked to do, when the instruction itself is actually good instruction. That is not the reality, however.
Arguing with a teacher - I agree that this is a no-no. But it can and does happen that there is something amiss in instructions, or missing. There can be many reasons. What about the teacher who still does the "pretend you're holding a ball" - and I have actually seen one use the word "claw" as a positive thing to aim for! Or the teacher ("teacher"?) who pressures a student to do advanced music very early and "be musical" in order to impress parents / compete with other "fast" teachers, without giving skills or time for those skills to gel? There are many scenarios and they are real. Especially at the college level I know several stories where the professor had some pet thing, which almost destroyed a student's playing.
I will even venture that some problems with technique have been caused by poor, wrong, or negligent teaching. That does not make the opposite wrong - not listening to good guidance can prevent the acquisition of good technique and lead to difficulties. But this other side also exists.
It is an extremely tricky issue, in fact. Say, for example, that you were self-taught, or you began with a teacher who whizzed you through pieces but gave you no good strategies. Whatever you have done so far feels comfortable, familiar, and easy. If you and your teacher now address some weak area, you may actually play
worse for a while. You won't zip through pieces by memorizing them when you are learning to read (finally) so it sounds slow and awkward, comparatively. If your technique was based on something destructive that has created a dead on to your progress, and you have to rebuild from the ground up, the very base of your playing is now "under construction" and it will feel unfamiliar and shaky for a while. So how can you tell? I mean - how can you tell whether this new awkwardness and temporary shakiness are due to this factor - or whether your technique is actually being gradually undermined or destroyed at this point?
Some of us have danced around these kinds of issues. In fact, almost every teacher and musician I have talked to who actually made it had at least one teacher in their background, where they had to undo the effects. And/or they totally misunderstood what was meant.
As I'm writing, I'm thinking that if you work with a teacher, and problems occur, there should be communication but which does not come out as blame. "I'm trying what you asked me to do, but I'm not comfortable with what is happening. Can you please have a look?" A good teacher will look - will want to know whether what she has proposed actually works for that student. She may say "What you are experiencing is perfectly normal at this stage. Give it time." Or "I see what's going on. You haven't quite grasped what I asked you to do. Let's try......" A poorish teacher may get defensive and blame and attack the student - if s/he says that ALL her students never manage to do this, then there is probably a problem with the instruction itself.
Reasonable?