This is a great question! First of all, just know that you'll get much better at recognizing subtleties in music the more you listen. I find it to be kind of like sightreading in that sense - you just have to do it to get better at it. For some more specific answers, some things that might impact which recordings appeal to you:-tempo: of course different pianists take different tempos and this can drastically impact a recording and your perception of it (see the discussion about Prokofiev's 7th sonata movement 3 under the "favorite piece(s) of all time" thread)-voicing: this is a big one, and definitely one that takes longer to recognize. If a particular piece or section has multiple melodies/voices, which one does the pianist choose to bring out? example: listen to Lazar Berman play this section of Liszt's Dante Sonata: at 8:48now listen to the same section by Pletnev:at 8:53As you can probably hear, Pletnev makes his voicing the focal point of this section. Each time the theme repeats, he emphasizes a different line going from the top, then the middle, and lastly the bottom voice. Berman, on the other hand, doesn't make as much of a point of differentiating these voices and seems to focus more on the general texture of the whole section rather than just the melody. For me personally, I like Pletnev's delicacy and nuance more here, but you might feel completely differently. -texture: texture is another more nuanced, but really important element of recordings to listen for. Maybe one pianist uses less pedal and has a clearer, crisper texture to their playing while another has a more blurred, atmospheric sound. take the same piece for example: listen to Berman - at 15:39Now compare to Pletnev at the same spot. at 16:12Pletnev uses almost no pedal, and so this passage becomes light, playful, jaunty, and crystal clear. Berman uses much more pedal, which intensifies the music and provides a fuller, blurrier texture. I happen to like Pletnev here again; his unique texture at this spot is my favorite part of his recording. -rubato: does the pianist use a lot or a little rubato? do they play the piece mostly in strict tempo or do they vary it up a bit? example: Valentina Lisitsa - at 0:32 versus Andre Laplante - at 0:31In this opening part of the mephisto waltz, Lisitsa takes lots of liberty with the tempo and there's lots of push and pull within each phrase. Laplante takes it more strictly in time, which I happen to like much more. The uninterrupted drive and building intensity that I feel is much more enjoyable for me than using rubato. I feel like excessive rubato makes my ears sorta seasick in a way, especially listening to someone like Lang Lang -other things include the sound of the piano, the sound of the recording (acoustics, reverb, audio quality), clarity of rhythms, phrasing, etc. that anacrusis also mentioned.I hope this post and the specific examples were helpful despite the fact that it's super long