Although I truely appreciate the opinion of those that prefer an ebony grand, personally, I have different taste. I am in the early stages of selecting a Parlor Grand in the range of 5'5" and 6'1". I am leaning towards the Kawai RX-3 (6'1"), but of all the ones I've seen, I always gravatate to the gloss wood tone. Rosewood would be my first choice, and I havn't decided about Mahogany or Walnut, I may end up happy with either.
I do occational woodworking as a hobby (built the dressers and side tables in my bedroom etc) and am a lover of wood. To my eye, all ebony pianos look the same, but each woodgrain one has a "fingerprint". Also, the fingerprints from kids are SOOOO apparent on an ebony finish.
Clearly to each his own, so even though I think a yellow piano is garish, I would be more likely to respect the owner if he/she plays it well, than a rich non-player that has a wonderful ebony concert grand collecting dust in one of their 3 houses.
My $.02
Michael