For some reason, when I hit "reply" it's a green button and brings me to an invitation to join the forum. Is this a new policy for new members' posts - that we can't reply to them?

Juncho, you wrote:
I can't quite hear all the intricate details that I'm missing in my playing but I can tell that I'm not hearing those misses if that makes sense. Basically, how do I develop a more critical ear?
I can relate to your question and it makes sense to me. First thing, do you have a teacher? There was a time when I was encouraged to listen to
others' playing or performances, and I felt I was missing in the listening department. I asked my teacher to point out one thing to listen for, and when I listened for that thing, I also started hearing more.
In my own playing, in part when I was told to aim for this or that, I also started hearing it of my own accord both in my own playing and that of others. By aiming for a specific thing, I also started listening for it and hearing it.
The ability to hear and listen for things is also a thing that develops. I was weak at hearing pulse or when a good musician nuanced timing for expression. For my own playing I used some visual aids for a while. Recorded a section of music while having the metronome playing - playing showed as spikes, piano as humps - if the humps came before or after the spikes I could see what I hadn't heard. After a while I started also hearing it. ---- I did not hear if two things came together, but was taught to hear a stutter (that I could hear) - could then hear one was earlier, but not which one (hence the recording).
These are just some ideas. If the original post opens up for responses (if the green post button gets its normal colour and function) I'll copy this over there.