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Offline blastzit

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How to stop thinking about mistakes in past performances?
on: June 20, 2024, 02:26:02 AM
I performed Prokofiev’s third piano concerto a couple of months ago, but it was my first ever concerto performance and I messed up a bit in the second movement piano solo (along with many other small mistakes). Now every time I think about this performance I just focus on my mistakes and think it’s such a horrible performance, plus I am scared to perform in the future (I have another concerto coming up next year). What methods do you all use to stop getting haunted by a bad performance in the past?
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Re: How to stop thinking about mistakes in past performances?
Reply #1 on: June 20, 2024, 03:55:23 AM
I performed as a solo pianist for several years for a living and have supported students who perform, so have many thoughts on this.

Every single performer who had been on stage multiple times has had a time where they have mucked up. That is what it means to be human. It sucks and it can be really demotivating. No one remembers your errors except the performer themselves!

People in the audience also don't focus on your errors, those that do don't wish the best for you anyway so why bother about them? Honestly the majority of people would admit they enjoyed listening to you despite the error. Those that dont enjoy your playing would probably not enjoy it even if you made no errors,  they can go back to their favorite recordings lol!! The drama of the error shows we are all human and we are not perfect, people with life experience will know this and be even more on your side to overcome it.

You can do practice performances for smaller groups of people, play in public places, donate your time to nursing homes, churches, public spaces etc. Find online places where you can play for others, or just use a video camera as an audience. The more you practice under performance pressure the easier it gets and you learn to care less about errors. Getting to the point where you don't fear errors even whilst it occurs on stage will strengthen you and allow you to push through them with more clarity.

Just remember everyone has made errors on stage, those that haven't have rarely performed!
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Re: How to stop thinking about mistakes in past performances?
Reply #2 on: June 26, 2024, 08:11:37 AM
Quote from: blastzit on June 20, 2024, 02:26:02 AM
I performed Prokofiev’s third piano concerto a couple of months ago, but it was my first ever concerto performance and I messed up a bit in the second movement piano solo (along with many other small mistakes). Now every time I think about this performance I just focus on my mistakes and think it’s such a horrible performance, plus I am scared to perform in the future (I have another concerto coming up next year). What methods do you all use to stop getting haunted by a bad performance in the past?

Hello!

Firstly, congratulations on your performance - it takes guts to do Prokofiev 3rd especially as a first ever concerto in your experience.

I think you should just do what scientists are doing: recognise that the mistakes are just part of the process of discovering and growing. Remember Thomas A. Edison and his famous "I did not fail 1,000 times, I just discovered 1,000 ways to not make a light bulb" quote?

Don't be so hard on yourself, pick yourself up and move forward. There are plenty of new experiences and mistakes to be made in the future, that's the only way to become a better pianist. Trial and error, reflection and then again trial and error.

Make sure to recognise the good parts of your performance too! They are also an objective reality, not just the mistakes right?

Cheers.
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Re: How to stop thinking about mistakes in past performances?
Reply #3 on: June 26, 2024, 10:34:33 AM
If you have time, watch this video. Scattered through it is a great discussion on the (non)-importance of mistakes. Ben Zander is an inspiring teacher, and might make you feel better about those mistakes.

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