Wow, really interesting thread! You dont get these on every forum

I was born a protestant christian, yet as an adult I have never had any draw towards the church. That isnt to say that I dont have faith, I just dont look towards religion to express it. I do believe in JC, though I dont feel I have any idea who he really was in life.
I hope I dont offend anyone by the following, and if I do please understand that I only say this to help communicate my own beliefs:
Imo religion is control. Its politics. Today there are many wordly factors that keep us, the masses, in check. But in the past, the iron rod was the threat of the church, of hell. Religion is also used a purpose. Just look at the muslim extremists, IRA etc. Find a group of people who are living in poor conditions, then give them a reason to fight and express their anger... that is the role of religion to many.
Its all way to contrived for my liking. I cant imagine anything further from the devine!
On the plus side, I do believe that religions can be great as community institutions. In religion, people can feel a sense of belonging and unity. Something that is difficult to find elsewhere. I guess in this sense the correlation between religion and football isnt as far fetched as it might initially sound!
In my own belief system, I believe in a higher power, I believe that 'we are not alone' etc. I believe in the human soul.
But I also believe in the delussions of morality. Im not convinced that the way I act on earth with have any impact on the big picture, let alone my particular afterlife (if such a thing exsists). I often think or it as if we are just frogs in a pond - the frog has no comprehesion of the world around it, it isnt capable of such. In the same way, we cant possibly comprehend the 'big picture', yet we all feel it in our own individual ways.
With regards to the original poster:
I dont understand how a person could have a relationship with Christ or God. Thats not to say I mock it at all, I just dont personally 'get' all that. I think the human mind is a complex instrument, and it will allow people to believe what ever they need to in order to forefill their life requirements.
Maybe one day I will be eating those words!
PS. Without knowing any of you very well, Im not 100% sure how you will take this post! If this stuff is offensive to anyone, just let me know and I'll get rid of the relevant parts.