Is it true....?

[mycrabface]

I read in a magazine that you can tell if a woman has lost her virginity or not by the way she walks... Is that true?

[allthumbs]

Don't believe everything you read!

[henrah]

Probably true for some, but not for others.

Did it say how to tell, what to look for?

[pianistimo]

what if they broke a leg?  then they'd be limping and you'd automatically categorize them.  (ok so i've been married 21 years in june).  why don't you forget perfection and go for the real person.  i'm not saying that purity isn't a first choice - but the society that we live in penalizes girls and guys don't hold the same standard.  what if everyone made a pact in their teenage years for abstinence.  then the girls wouldn't be pressured to have sex in the first place.  the guys would be protecting them.  i say that when you are serious you should marry the girl.  otherwise - you're just taking something that isn't yours.  and, that girls should value themselves a lot more and say 'no.'  sometimes wanting a person to like you isn't a very good reason (but often a reason for teens).  they don't know the psychological damage as well as physical.  you can't help compare - whereas two people who are virgins would have each other on the highest pedestal.  at the marriage ceremony is the time to cut and burn with a lighter all those pics of past girlfriends and boyfriends!  i think marriage is great.  you have one partner and hopefully someone who will value you not just for sex but for your mind.  perfection is ideal - but seldom a reality.  girls who do keep their virginity should be commended instead of ridiculed.  maybe in this age more kids are coming around to that idea.  it's really like being on the honor role.  (*kind of wonder if the two sort of go together because if you are messing around - don't have the same attention span and time to get homework done).

i'd look for how the parents behave.  often an indication of the fidelity of a person in general.  children learn what they see done more than talk.  if they've been divorced three times - good inidcation that they don't value a long lasting relationship unless they married young or had bad luck quite a few times. 

i tell my kids to look for relationships in a church setting or activity other than bar or party.  the person would be wider ranged then getting drunk.  have some maturity and not get them into trouble all the time.  think of the savings on your car insurance alone (let alone fidelity).

[thalbergmad]

two people who are virgins would have each other on the highest pedestal. 

If they did that, they would not be virgins anymore.

[henrah]

what if they broke a leg? then they'd be limping and you'd automatically categorize them. (ok so i've been married 21 years in june). why don't you forget perfection and go for the real person. i'm not saying that purity isn't a first choice - but the society that we live in penalizes girls and guys don't hold the same standard. what if everyone made a pact in their teenage years for abstinence. then the girls wouldn't be pressured to have sex in the first place. the guys would be protecting them. i say that when you are serious you should marry the girl. otherwise - you're just taking something that isn't yours. and, that girls should value themselves a lot more and say 'no.' sometimes wanting a person to like you isn't a very good reason (but often a reason for teens). they don't know the psychological damage as well as physical. you can't help compare - whereas two people who are virgins would have each other on the highest pedestal. at the marriage ceremony is the time to cut and burn with a lighter all those pics of past girlfriends and boyfriends! i think marriage is great. you have one partner and hopefully someone who will value you not just for sex but for your mind. perfection is ideal - but seldom a reality. girls who do keep their virginity should be commended instead of ridiculed. maybe in this age more kids are coming around to that idea. it's really like being on the honor role. (*kind of wonder if the two sort of go together because if you are messing around - don't have the same attention span and time to get homework done).

i'd look for how the parents behave. often an indication of the fidelity of a person in general. children learn what they see done more than talk. if they've been divorced three times - good inidcation that they don't value a long lasting relationship unless they married young or had bad luck quite a few times.

i tell my kids to look for relationships in a church setting or activity other than bar or party. the person would be wider ranged then getting drunk. have some maturity and not get them into trouble all the time. think of the savings on your car insurance alone (let alone fidelity).

You have just said everything that today's society should be like; but we are what we are, and some people like to sleep around and just generally be slutty. I can kind of see the fun in it, but I think it would wear off after a while if I were to take on that way of living.

As an old proverb says: "One mans garbage is another mans treasure" and vica versa.

[Siberian Husky]

I read in a magazine that you can tell if a woman has lost her virginity or not by the way she walks... Is that true?

this is somewhat reflective of the pianist demographic...clueless about life due to engaging endless hours at the piano..im such a prejudist...or in this case..a pianIST..get it?!?..pianist..ahAHAHAHAHAHAHaha. no.

[prometheus]

You can't even see it by examining her sexual organs.

"One mans garbage is another mans treasure" and vica versa.

I don't think I have ever seen this applied to people before, interesting.

[Siberian Husky]

it applies to anything and everything..even lagin's repertoire

[pianistimo]

    be nice or you'll be kicked by white girls.  we have a larger repertoire than you think.  why are you so mean sometimes?  just be nice and the long distance charges made to your number will be reversed. 

*don't you kind of wish they had a bunny iditarod?

ps i'm not suggesting only the ones that walk funny.  maybe some straight A students or piano majors that actually finish.  the lazy bunnies would complain of cold feet right away and be whisked away to warmth and coziness whilst the smart ones would endure endless nights of torture - and yet recieve a prize of many carots. 

[henrah]

ehehheee, your so delightfully random Pianistimo :D