It seems that there are many musicians on this forum and others(and in the music community period) that seem to only play their instrument because they consider themselves good or technically superior to most. There seems to be such a focus on whether or not you will make as a concert pianist and that if you don't become uber famous, or don't play "better" than everyone else that you have somehow failed or not achieved what you want.
I myself think that if one could persue music in anyway at all, whether that is performing, teaching, composing, conducting etc. that one is extremely lucky to be able to do music for a living as opposed to some other tedious work. I know many many musicians who make more than enough money to pay the rent and buy their goods who are not extremly famous or widely recognized, but who simply enjoy their lifestlye that they are so privelaged to have. This is what it's all about isn't it?
It definitely takes hard work, but anyone who really wants to, and has musical talent, is perfectly capable of dedicating a large portion of their life to music and still be able to live comfortably, have a family etc. It just becomes frustrating when such a large amount of musicians lose sight of what they really love and focus so much on being better than others. It sure is nice to be considered gifted/technically superior, but it is nicer to be able to follow your passion.
Anyways...I just had to let out some words that hopefully got through to some people. I personally have wondered the topic myself, and have realized that I am very lucky just for the experiences I've had and know that I will have. Remember, you ARE special just to be a musician, it is all about your own endeavor, not the opinion of others or the prestige you can get.