Well, I am surprised that I am even bothering to throw my thoughts in here, but apparently I am writing in anyway, so here I go.
I won't try to decide whether or not the forum is getting "better" or "worse" because that's very subjective, of course, and depends greatly on the individual and why they come here.
When I first started coming here it was a smaller and more intimate environment, and I felt that the 'regular' people here were generally not just serious musicians, but also serious learners, educators, and people with meaty thoughts on life. I generally felt that the environment was quite a safe place for somebody like me and where I was at in my life to explore some of my bigger questions with others, and to have some genuine learning experiences through what was shared by various people and various viewpoints. I feel as though I have grown as a person as a result of this experience, and for this I am very grateful, however, I have definitely not felt those same sorts of things *as much* for awhile now.
Some of that has to do with the fact that
I have changed and the things I am looking for and needing are different now. When I first came here, I was pretty fresh out of Uni, very fresh into teaching, and feeling very much like I needed a semi-scholastic, supportive environment to help me continue growing. I was extremely surprised to find that in an online forum but I recognized the opportunity none-the-less and I decided to take it with full force

. There is a lot of knowledge that has been expressed here and I am grateful to have that in the archives (and I still have *a lot* to dig through and learn from in just what has already been provided. That will probably go on for decades

).
Also, I have met some extremely wonderful people, perhaps even some real friends, and for this I am also extremely grateful. These people are irreplaceable in my life.
I have never been interested in the "what's the most" type of threads, and I was a little dismayed when those seemed to infiltrate the forum; I am personally happy that they have their own space now. And likewise, though I consider myself a spiritual person and desirous to learn about various spiritual and religious things, I did also tire of having that constantly flood posts in almost any board and discussion, by some members. There are other things, too, but I realize it's not just these things which I could probably still manuvuer around and ignore when I needed to.
It's the fact that those things are what nearly the entire environment had become, along with a seeming greater harshness expressed by some members and in my experience, the "supportive" atmosphere diminished significantly after a point. There seemed/seems to be little balance between talks over "who's the best/what's the greatest"/religion/and then random "talks" in da sdc lingo/sex -- compared with PIANO/Music-related stuff that I could actually take to my
life-practice and business. So, manuevering around those things I didn't care for became increasingly difficult and increasingly barren in providing the kind of musical food I was looking for.
I will admit, I have mostly come here to learn and grow and to try to help others when/if possible. In life, it is a general practice of mine to glean what I can from my circumstances and use those lessons in my life. It's not that I can't use anything that I have observed recently, I just find that for me anymore, there is a lack of practical new informations that I can bring to what it is that I am doing in my life. And also, it is not as though I have found that sharing my views and informations had been particularly helpful for anybody else (though it can be argued it was still helpful for me to organize my thoughts through posting certain things).
I do agree that there needs to be some comic flavor and relief. However, I have never viewed the entire forum as a "pub" and if anything, maybe the 'anything but' board would fall under this category. But, I have wanted and needed more than a pub experience, personally.
Because of my feelings about my changing experiences at the forum, I have looked to my own life more than I had at one time. And, instead of just wanting to experience all of the things I was hungry for about music and learning here on the forum, I decided to create that environment that I wanted here, within my own studio and in the rest of my life. I do not regret that decision in the least because my life has developed a much greater richness because of it. And in all honesty, it may not have happened in the same ways had I stayed so engaged here on the forum (and if I had reason to stay engaged, I would have). I believe I am now living what I have learned at the forum, and that is a most important step in any kind of learning process.
Now, I don't know what I am wanting out of being here, nor am I convinced that I can add anything of value to most memebers by being here. I cannot explain how much I appreciate the sheetmusic selections and recordings, that has been invaluable to me and my business. But, I know that I am not seeking certain things in the same ways that I once was. I am different now and I need different things. I am just not sure what that/those things are.
I have been happy to see more teachers joining, and I know that I can take part in more projects that had been "started" awhile back...
Cheers,
m1469