Thanks, I will listen to some of those recording mentioned. Maybe im a little uptight. Will give them another chance.
If I may, perhaps it is all a matter of what you have in your mind and heart when you approach this music in specific and transcriptions and arrangements in general.
The merit of such piece of music lies entirely in the intentions of the second-in-time composer, her of his ability and creativity, and the intrinsic musical merit of the second-in-time musical work.
For example, with the Godowsky etudes, I think it would be helpful to you while or prior to your exploration of these pieces, to read Godowsky's preface and annotations, which accompany the score. They make clear the enourmous reverence he had for these originals.
Then consider what is it that Godowsky is doing. I must confess I am less interested in the mechanical advancements these studies pose. What grabs my attention is the harmonic language, the motivic concentration and the attention to polyphony poured into these pages. There is lots of humor in there, the witty kind, and also lots of pathos. I find the Op. 10 # 6, for example, trascendentally profound. And invariably I get a smile when Godowsky presents the harmonic and melodic contour of Op. 25 # 2 by the figuration means of Op. 10 # 10, or when he overlaps the figurations and mostly the harmonic contour of Op. 25 # 9 and Op. 10 #5.
These may not be the best entry point to this literature, though. Do you like lieder or opera? Maybe something less incestous than music for piano transcribed for piano would be a a better fit. See if you like this (forgive me for the playing, I mean just the music):
https://www.pianostreet.com/smf/index.php/topic,9563.0.html