And about the character of God, because I think this is often used as another denial technique. People who are basically good at heart don't want to believe that the Bible, and their God, could actually condemn others to eternities of torment and suffering, and imagine that because of the recurring invocations of "mercy," "grace," "benevolence," "everlasting love," etc., that would not happen.
However it is clear to all that God displays many different characters. In the Old Testament, the downtrodden desire justice, and call upon God to give it through them, usually through wrath towards the oppressors, or some catastrophic destruction. In the New Testament, the downtrodden fear justice, and beg God to be worthy of it. These two Gods do not cancel each other out but show two sides of the same coin, he who would destroy his enemies as well as those who would be his friends.
The Holy Scrit clearly states that those who deny God are destined for a death of eternal suffering, and that they will be handpicked by God, with Jesus at his right hand (or as the English used to say, "on" his right hand), to go into the fire prepared for the Devil and his angels. God's mercy only extends to those who accept his sacrifice of his son as the act that redeems them; those who do not accept the sacrifice are not privileged to receive the mercy, and will burn forever in the flames of Hades. I don't see how there can ever be a queston about this...
Unless, you do not believe what the Holy Scrit says to be true. If you don't, then you should have the courage to say so, rather than trying every trick in the book to deny what is written in black and white. if you do, you should also be unafraid to say so, as God will not deny those who do not deny him and his word.
Walter Ramsey