lostinidlewonder, how do you feel about actually playing a passage for a student? Many teachers think it's a bad idea, because the student should be learning how to play in their own style, not just copying the teacher.
I feel only encouraged to play a passage for a student if they are "missing the point" technically and/or musically. I really do not wish them to mimic me exactly, that is impossible, but to do what I ask for (which improves the effortlessness physically to produce your desired sound) in your own way. This is hard to explain in a few words, but I have a good sense of knowing if they are on the wrong side or the righter side of their technical/musical playing. My option I give them only will ever be enforced if the student admits to me that it is easier for their hands, however I do have to impose my vito over their decision especially if they are beginners/intermediate AND I cannot fathom how doing it their way feels normal.
I definately do not mould a student to play like me, but I can definately see the changes in the students way which improves their ease of their playing. Before imposing my ideas upon students I must ask them whether what I ask for really is easier for them or not. More often than not they will agree agree it is easier, but sometimes they refuse to agree.
So when I ask the student to judge whether the physically changes I require from their technique is indeed easier for them, I have to ensure that 1) they fully understand logically what I am asking for 2) They can see what they have to change in their playing 3) That the change they make has an observable feeling to their hand that they can compare to their original method to decide which is easier. 4) That they agree that my suggestion makes things easier for them.
As you speak with a student, the diagnosis you go through as to what you have prescribed them must be spot on. I know the hands of all my students in great detail, I know exactly how it feels just by watching it play from experience watching them. How can I describe my method to getting into my students hands and feeling what they feel? I developed this diagnosis through experience observing individual hands not from text books.
1. Yes, it's true, that the difference between good and bad is often very subtle. Only a single note a slight bit too loud or too late or too short - and the whole whole phrase is ruined.
2. Because of 1. it's almost impossible to correct such things just by correcting movements. The control of the playing has to do with the preliminary imagination of the sound and the listening to what your playing really sounds like afterwards. Correction of movements can be helpful in some cases, but that's only a very small part of the work. Ear training is the biggest part.
I believe you are talking about two things and trying to unite them together as one, that is the technical and musical side to music. I find this very difficult, it is like Einstein's search for the Grand Unified Theory.... well maybe that is an exaggeration

However, usually if a physical movement is inaccurate this adversely effects the sound that is produced. I see many of my advanced students control inefficient technique and however produce a wonderful desired sound. In this case my alterations to the technique not necessarily aims to improve sound but rather minimise the effort to produce it.
So the musical side to playing first has to be one trained by the ear. If a student play an accent or weak staccato then you simply highlight the difference make them observe it and understand it, and off you go. Sometimes the bad sound can be from bad technique, in that case you first target the fingering and movement of the body, make them understand how to consume less effort, then you ask them to apply it to the correct sound via technical application and listening training.
Urg my heads spinning
