For recodings, they're generally very well done, quite polished. Sometimes ya gotta take it on a case-by-case basis. Like Gould, who I often think does a great job of communicating but other times I think what is this?
For the most part, with recordings sometimes I'm just in a more receptive mindset than others. Probably has to do with how busy I am and how much other things are running through my head ("gotta hurry before the store closes, that guy really pissed me off, what would steak be like with PB and jam?").
I don't know many pianists personally, most of my social circles are partyers but I've been drifting from that lifestyle. Later this year I'll meet more musicians when I go to school.
In the summer the university got a new Steinway from NY, so they put together a concert to show off the new piano. The faculty played really well of course, and the new piano sounded great, but what really stood out for me was a guest pianist. She might've been a student, I'm not sure, her playing was captivating. I think it was her rhythmic timing, when she can keep my attention on every note through a piece I've heard so often as Debussy's Claire de Lune, I'm impressed.
Anyways, I agree with your thoughts Mike. Sometimes it's important to just listen to some good music to refuel the motivation.