xvimbi, I agree with some of what you said, but not all.
But as for you calling "cheeze" on my respect, I can only conclude that you misinterpreted both monk's post and mine. You said this:
For once, I got to side with Kulahola here. I think it's a bit questionable to respect someone, because he allows his students to be lazy and focuses more on a holistic teaching approach, and not respect someone, because she is strict with her students.
First, I doubt monk allows his students to be lazy. I don't know him personally, but I can gather that based on his posts to the forum. For instance, see his resonse to the "I'm lazy" thread here:
https://www.pianoforum.net/cgi-bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=stud;action=display;num=1087468817 He merely allows his students to be "lazy" in the sense that he does not require them to be machines which only practice all day and have only a single goal.
Second, notice that in my post, I didn't say I respect him because he allows his students to be lazy. This would be very stupid of me, because there are thousands of teachers who allow their students to be lazy, which largely results in the acceptance of mediocrity. The reason I respect monk is because he genuinely cares for his students. This is, in my mind, something very worthy of respect.
Also, I completely disagree with this here:
In ANY activity - not just piano playing, but chess, biochemistry, marathon, climbing, etc., if one wants to excel, one practically has to devote one's entire life to it. No slacking, no "playing crap". One needs to have complete focus, or in other words, one must wear blinders and be unbalanced, and one will develop psycological problems. It's inevitable. In such a case, a teacher who lets you slack is utterly worthless and would not deserve any respect.
Are you saying that one who wants to excel should dedicate himself blindly to that activity at the expense of all else, even his well-being? Wow! If a student were so silly as to do this, the BEST thing the teacher could do is to make the student realize there is more to life than being the best piano player in the world. Of course, one must be dedicated and focused to excel; this is a given. But why do musicians excel to the point of greatness? Is it because they want to sell cd's, or because they want to be discussed and revered by students who post on online piano forums? No, it's because they love music (I hope).
Excellence does not necessarily imply the development of psychological problems. And if it did, what would be the point of it (excellence)? What if the student decides to dedicate himself completely to excelling in the piano, and then he incurs a Repetitive Stress Injury, or has one arm severely (and permanently) injured in a car accident? Since there's no chance he can excel in what he focused himself on, is there no longer purpose for his life? Is he ruined?
At that sort of crisis, the student will realize what a fool he was for limiting himself.
Also, one minor thing. I'm not being nitpicky here, but your use of "a priori" is not correct. "Per se" would be better. I don't care about this kind of thing, because the meaning was clear, but I thought you'd like to know it anyway.
- Saturn