What kind of listeners /fans do you want? People who work exclusively from the head chakra? If so, play brilliantly, technically, perfectly. To the mind, this IS a sort of emotion- something done well, a mental athlete of Olympic skill;- a quality thing. People who are physical especially will love a player full of strength and bravura and won't care about sensitivity. People who come primarily from the heart and who have lived their lives experiencing life deeply will require a different sense of timing perhaps-- more pregnant pauses, the imbuing a piece with an atmosphere--though, if the pianist does this for effect, they will sense it. But you know how when you are deep in an emotion, that time changes- your soul is busy feeling something, so time is warped. I watch actors for this, notice their timing sometimes- some of them really understand this- but if I am thinking on my mental side as I am playing, I will think I am being boring. (And if I am in that mood, perhaps there is more integrity in playing faster or whatever- still...) I think that everyone should understand that they listen with their bodies, and not just their ears. Check your muscle tension when you are listening to an underconfident player. It will be tight, as you sympathise or fear for him/her. Feel how certain chords or orchestrations just fill your body, and where you feel them; which ones make you melt. It's not your ears who are melting, it's in the body. It is as if you are not just playing 'touchingly' for people when you are playing for them, -but that you ARE touching them, just as if you were caressing them, or dancing wildly with them, or slapping them. By the same token, don't you just hate it when pieces are, for instance, "Alla marcia", but are played so fast that no one could possibly march to them? For instance, the way all the geniuses are playing Rach's prelude in G Minor...Or when they are meant to be a dance, and the body couldn't possibly do the dance well at that speed...Or when an ocean wave is portrayed, but it has no weight. My head is sometimes very convinced that a piece is impressive when other parts of me haven't been touched at all.