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Offline rachmaninoff_forever

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Is it strange to go out with someone after...
« on: February 12, 2013, 12:26:56 PM »
Is it strange to go out with someone after knowing eachother for only two weeks?
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #1 on: February 12, 2013, 12:32:38 PM »
I did that once, but it was less than one week! Now it's 11 years and counting ;)

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #2 on: February 12, 2013, 12:34:07 PM »
I did that once, but it was less than one week! Now it's 11 years and counting ;)



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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #3 on: February 12, 2013, 12:35:52 PM »
And we lived under the same roof after 3 weeks lo0ol
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #4 on: February 12, 2013, 12:37:50 PM »
And we lived under the same roof after 3 weeks lo0ol

Oh so you must've been in college huh?

I thought you were freaking in your 20s!
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #5 on: February 12, 2013, 12:39:21 PM »
Oh yes.... I'm perpetually 20 something from now on. :)
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #6 on: February 12, 2013, 12:47:05 PM »
Oh yes.... I'm perpetually 20 something from now on. :)
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #7 on: February 12, 2013, 12:49:14 PM »
When you are really 30 something you like to think you are 20 something, when you are really 40 something you like to think you are 30 something.. yeah lol.
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #8 on: February 12, 2013, 03:40:02 PM »
I am 40 something and think I am 50 something ;D

As for the original question, life has taught me that as far as relationships are concerned, nothing is strange.

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #9 on: February 12, 2013, 05:19:30 PM »
I am 40 something and think I am 50 something ;D
Well, at least you are something and think that you are something!

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #10 on: February 12, 2013, 05:39:43 PM »
Is it strange to go out with someone after knowing eachother for only two weeks?

Out where? If you are not talking about space why would it be strange?

Around here it usually goes like this:
Meet in bar...end up at one party's home to drink more...something happens or not...if it's not a complete disaster (and neither party is not already committed) decide to start dating next morning...either break up a few days/weeks/months later or end up married with a bunch of children...

Not saying it's a perfect system but better than nothing :)

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #11 on: February 12, 2013, 05:50:44 PM »
Is it strange to go out with someone after knowing eachother for only two weeks?
Is that how long you've known Ms Lisitsa then?

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #12 on: February 12, 2013, 06:01:31 PM »
Is it strange to go out with someone after knowing eachother for only two weeks?
What does "going out" mean?  you could go out the next day after meeting someone, if you felt something "click".

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #13 on: February 12, 2013, 06:02:06 PM »
And I'm forty-something... ::)

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #14 on: February 12, 2013, 10:56:59 PM »
I feel 40 something...

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #15 on: February 12, 2013, 11:02:16 PM »
I feel like I should be retired.

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #16 on: February 12, 2013, 11:05:30 PM »
What does "going out" mean?  you could go out the next day after meeting someone, if you felt something "click".
When i was in school "going out" didnt mean actually going somewhere with the person. It was more of a joint agreement that you were in a steady relationship..

You would ask a girl "would you go out with me?" And if she said yes that didnt mean you would go on a date, it meant she was agreeing to be your girlfriend officially.

Weird.

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #17 on: February 12, 2013, 11:22:57 PM »


You would ask a girl "would you go out with me?" And if she said yes that didnt mean you would go on a date, it meant she was agreeing to be your girlfriend officially.

Come on guys get with the freaking program!

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #18 on: February 12, 2013, 11:23:52 PM »
I feel 40 something...

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No.
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #19 on: February 12, 2013, 11:31:45 PM »
But the question is, how will you explain this to Valentina?

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #20 on: February 12, 2013, 11:41:43 PM »
Is it strange to go out with someone after knowing eachother for only two weeks?

No. But even if it was, what would it matter if it feels right?

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #21 on: February 12, 2013, 11:42:16 PM »
But the question is, how will you explain this to Valentina?

Who says that I'm not talking about Valentina?

And even if I wasn't, who said you can't love two people at the same time!
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #22 on: February 12, 2013, 11:42:50 PM »
No. But even if it was, what would it matter if it feels right?

In matters of the heart, convention holds for very little and should hold for less.

Alright, thanks bro.
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #23 on: February 12, 2013, 11:49:41 PM »
Who says that I'm not talking about Valentina?

The thread title would be a whole lot different if you were I imagine. :p

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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #24 on: February 13, 2013, 12:00:06 AM »
who said you can't love two people at the same time!

Possibly, but "going out with" two people at the same time is a logistical nightmare and the stuff of movie farces.
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #25 on: February 13, 2013, 12:40:27 AM »
The thread title would be a whole lot different if you were I imagine. :p

I have nooooooooooooo idea what you're talking about. ::)
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #26 on: February 13, 2013, 02:00:37 AM »
No.

Guys just dont see the big picture...lol. but you are a youngster, i guess.
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #27 on: February 13, 2013, 03:44:42 AM »
Guys just dont see the big picture...lol. but you are a youngster, i guess.

Not following you.   ???
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Re: Is it strange to go out with someone after...
«Reply #28 on: February 13, 2013, 05:18:39 AM »
It's cool, me bad...
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